Can you find anywhere in the Bible that actually says heterosexual sex before marriage is a sin? Even in the Old Testament?
The New Testament has a lot about "sexual immorality" but doesn't define that, and seems to follow the social mores of the day
I think many people do. But of course you can help yourself by reminding yourself of the reasons why you don't believe in evangelical Christianity anymore. Another thing you could do is do a Bibles study - I'm mnot sure the Bible (which we both know doesn't speak with a unified voice on...