Hi, if you're reading this, then I probably pointed you here to save time for all of us.
Yes, if you see me here, I'm looking to play (or I'm actively playing). No, I'm not looking to just chat, at least not until I know you'd be a great playmate.
"Kinks and Limits": Definitely not interested in anything prohibited by the server. Anything else, it all depends. I've done some things in RP I never would have imagined and enjoyed them. But the scenario had better be fantastic. I prefer playful over intense. It would be hard to get me to enjoy cuckold or heavy BDSM (I have played Domme, and enjoyed it, but again, not my fave.) I am polyamorous, and I don't understand the thrill of cheating.
"What do you look like?": I'm 5'7. I played varsity volleyball in college. So, I *was* super fit. I'm still athletic but I've definitely softened some. My breasts went from a B to a C-cup. My ass went from firm and a bit oversized to softer and kinda thick. I have thick, dark curly hair that goes down past my shoulders.
No, I don't just play with anyone (this should be good news to you, because if I did, then you'd never get time with me.
A bit quirky with the way that I play: While I love the backstory, I do not enjoy rping the non-sexual parts very much. Also, I have limited time to play, and, honestly, long RPs become boring to me after a while. In terms of detail, I like a moderate amount, maybe 2-3 sentences per post on average. So, put this all together, and my optimal play goes something like this: spend 10-15 minutes in a discussion about the backstory, then start to play, do at most 15 minutes of the non-sexual part leading up to it, then fuck for another 75 minutes where the posts focus more on what is happening than on aesthetic descriptions, and probably changing positions relatively frequently (1.5 hours of play total).
Is it hard to get me to play? Seems easy to me, although many seem to find me impossible. TLDR: I have to want to.
1. Usually, the easiest way to do this is by being willing to play in a public room and helping me find some fun, creative, non-cliché element to add to the play. For example: You're actually trying to get with some other girl, but ask if you can fuck me so that you can impress her with how good you are, and could I sell it just a bit? (No, I won't play this exact scenario with you. I've done it, let's do something new.)
2. If on the other hand, you want to play with me in private, the bar is a little higher (I'm an exhibitionist, plus playing publicly exposes me to other potential playmates.) Help me come up with a scene. Not something old and simple (e.g. I'm your boss and we fuck on a business trip). If it can't be described in less than 2 sentences of RELEVANT details, then I probably won't be interested. Another example: I'm a sex-obsessed girl with a kink for powerful, older men. When I graduated college with my business degree, I got myself a job at a major firm who I could tell the CEO saw me and thirsted for me. Only too eager to fuck him, I became his protegé, and he taught me so many real-world business lessons. But eventually it was too vanilla for me, so I took a major step down to help run a porn studio, becoming very involved in the day-to-day operations as well as closing deals in any way necessary. Today I need to convince a Hollywood studio not to sue us for copyright infringement.
Or, I'm in a group of friends that has decided to not make distinctions between friendships and lovers, and the thing that binds us together more than anything else is having sexual adventures, prizing fun ideas over most anything else. Today one of the guys suggested a drinking game involving reproducing random scenes from various pornos. (Again, no, don't suggest these. Let's come up with something new. Although coming up with an adventure for the friends to do is perfectly acceptable.)
3. Well, if you've gotten this far, there is another way. At least sometimes, all I'm really looking for is a nice person who is a decent communicator, friendly, and willing to have a 10-15 minute chat with me where I find out a bit about them and their tastes to try to come up with a scenario that works for both of us.
4. Other: It's not all about scenarios and rp. Sometimes I just want to fuck someone. Like, I haven't seen someone in a while. Recently I finished a scene, and someone was really sweet and patient to me about it... so I basically ended up jumping him. Or if there's some kind of rare play available. For example, group play can be a challenge around here, but if some fun people are starting something up (yes, ffm or mmf) then it shouldn't be too hard to pull me in.