Poll Is it acceptable to cheat when you don't have a sexual relationship with your partner?

[Loverofnight]

Look I know it's "wrong" and not right or fair. But, what do you do when you have children with someone and they just have no interest or very low libido for some reason?

She jokes about me finding someone else sometimes. I think we need to have that conversation but don't want her to feel like I don't love her and she's kind of a prudish person - here, nobody's interested lol

What do you guys think? Acceptable or just no?

 

[ModoLudens]

No. But I hear and understand the frustration. My 2 cents: It sounds like she's aware, too - which I would interpret as not being malicious and a sign she's willing to talk seriously. Maybe consider counseling? Hang in there, dude. It's worth handling the right way. I hope things work out for both of you.

 

[NikoDen]

The answer to your question unfortunately doesn’t lie just infront of you, sorry to say!
But there are also so many more questions related to you and your partners issues. The answers from that might lead you in the right direction. Because my own experiences says that a woman’s libido can be at the lowest of low points one day. And rise to the sky the next, if you play your cards in the right way with that particular woman. The woman sexuality is one of my favorite puzzles to figure out, but sometimes also one of the most frustrating and confusing, aswell as from time to time being logical, if you understand how to interpret her needs.
But conversation is a step forward in the right direction. If she suggests an open relationship, not just by joking, talk about it seriously with her.
Just don’t see the Facebook ads that talks about overcoming her libido making her want you. I mean there is probably some truth to them about changing one self. But they break you down, telling you that you are only wrong in your choices in your normal and sexual relationship, which for me is quite wrong we you are in this state of not feeling wanted by your partner.
But wish you the best of luck with your efforts!
And hope the answer was useful and not just someone trying to sound clever and jibber jabber

 

[Loverofnight]

Thanks for all the input. Isn't being on here kind of cheating regardless? Not sure but I've cheated in my mind a hell of a lot. Hope you are all getting some!

 

[SexyAsianBitch]

A dead bedroom is a relationship problem. Cheating is a response to a relationship problem.

Those aren’t the same thing.

If you’re at the point where you’re considering other people, the conversation with your wife is already overdue. Have that conversation first. Then decide what comes next together instead of making the decision for her.