Awe, Victoria *hugs* once Tom recovers, I am sure things will be that way again for you two. Do not give up hope.
I have more hope now than I did 24 hours ago. But it's going to be a long time before things are back to how they were.
*hugs Victoria* the first month will likely be the hardest. But once Tom's back begins to heal, he will regain his mobility. What are you going through is merely temporary.