chat help

I've noticed that I'm no longer able to remove/delete pics I've uploaded even though click the delete button/icon... nothing happens. I use to be able to do this last week but noticed none of the pics are being removed now.

In any gay chatroom I've used, I'll see posts like, "anyone on message?" or "message username _________." What exactly is message? I'm used to people saying "message me" as in a pm. But these other ones always confuse me.

When i logged in and done with the captcha. The chat is not loading at all. Instead it keeps showing loading and loading. Please help me.

It will allow me to login under the forums side but once i go over to chats it just keeps reloading. Can someone help please.