kicked out

So I am out of my usual state for a little bit and wanted to log on, but the system kicked me for “using a VPN” when I’m just not where I usually am. Is there a good way to circumnavigate that in the future when wanting to log on during, say, a trip?

I was kicked for posting a roleplay fantasy in some of the chat rooms. My post said: "You're my babysitter, left to work for too long. I come home hours late, while my wife is out of town and it's already late in the evening and the kids are sleeping. PM me if interested." How is this a cause...