Exercise and Fitness Are dad bods ACTUALLY hot?

I don't know what you're pushing here, but it seems like self-preservation, gaslighting for some twisted rhetoric and you keep forgetting to mention that fat is appealing to you, not entirety of population.

If fat was so appealing, ~80% of women wouldn't be attracted to only ~20% of male population. Same goes for men. These stats are real. I don't think I don't need to get into details, because y'all perfectly understand the uncomfortable yet undeniable truth. This thread wouldn't exist if you were correct.

The person who started the thread is trying to lose fat, not gain fat. Note his citing of 8% body fat. Do you know what that looks like?

Excess fat is not healthy and is a terrible thing to gaslight people with, saying that it's appealing or cute or whatever the fuck. This body-positivity and feelings/confort mantra used to be in place to acknowledge that people with odd body part promotions or their unphotogenic (is that a word ?) is nothing to be ashamed of, but has turned into some toxic ass shit that's helping to propel humanity into a health epidemic. Some shit got skewed in the last few decades. Fucking crazy.

How about we get back on topic of this thread?
 
How about instead, we all push for fitness, which is much, much better for your mental health, motivation, mood elevating hormones, longer and easier life, etc... Fat loss diets don't exist because everybody is fit or wants to be fat.
 
Echo-_- said:
how about instead of being ignorant and twisting and manipulating my words, you keep your rude ass ignorant prick commentary to yo self. The topic is 'Are dad bods actually hot?' And my response is entirely in line with that. So bugger off
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GTFO. This man needs feedback and motivation based on logic and a pathway to success, not fuzzy wuzzy gaslighting "you are one of us" lunacy.
 
This man asked for opinions on whether dad bods are hot or not.. not a novel on a misplaced exercise regime. I know you mean well, but maybe try to let others share their own opinion even when it differs from your own
 
The problem seems to be you having trouble sticking to the topic. I know you're enjoying chastising me, but let's let people get back to the topic. State your own opinion and move on. If you wish to discuss matters with me personally you know where my dm's live. Stop plugging up this thread with your nonsense
 
ScottySinz said:
I genuinely wasn't expecting this thread to turn into an argument.... Now I kinda feel bad 😔
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Hey, thanks for the private message, I appreciate that, and no worries, Stano doesn't bother me at all, sometimes he just has a narrow minded view and can't seem to accept that others are allowed to express their own thoughts too. Best to just ignore him, he eventually moves on, and like I said, if you want to up your exercise game, it's defo best to sit down with a registered dietitian and personal trainer rather than taking any misguided advice on a sex chat.

And beyond all that, I think you look great as you are. ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ Enjoy your day
 
LOL narrow minded? You came here, like, "I like to bounce on someone's fat bare gut with my fatty bare ass, so it's okay to be unhealthy, because I said so." Who's forbidding you express your thoughts?

The only misguided advice is that which ignores what he actually needs and gaslighting him with fuzzy comfort and ass / gut bounce drivel which isn't guiding him down the right path.

This is a social website for adults, not "sex chat." Labeling a forum by some dismissive terms doesn't preclude anyone from accountability in giving bad advice which will be challenged by sound logic anyone has freedom here to do so. Go back to sleep.
 
Old thread, but I just found it and feel like chiming in. What people consider attractive is subjective, and the idea of a “dad bod” is subjective too. So the question itself is debatable, but I can probably offer a decent snapshot of how many women see it. What isn’t attractive is a man who’s completely consumed by his appearance—tracking every calorie like it’s a second job, spending hours at the gym daily, and organizing his entire life around hitting a very specific body-fat percentage. On the flip side, it’s also not attractive when a man doesn’t care at all and lives exclusively on pizza and apathy. What is attractive is balance: someone who eats well, exercises regularly, and still knows how to enjoy a burger without spiraling. So yes, being fit is physically attractive. But a “dad bod” isn’t unattractive either, as long as the person is aiming for a healthy middle ground. And let’s be honest—having similar goals (and similar ideas of what “healthy” looks like) probably has a lot to do with what we find attractive in the first place.
 
Lilith2_0 said:
Old thread, but I just found it and feel like chiming in. What people consider attractive is subjective, and the idea of a “dad bod” is subjective too. So the question itself is debatable, but I can probably offer a decent snapshot of how many women see it. What isn’t attractive is a man who’s completely consumed by his appearance—tracking every calorie like it’s a second job, spending hours at the gym daily, and organizing his entire life around hitting a very specific body-fat percentage. On the flip side, it’s also not attractive when a man doesn’t care at all and lives exclusively on pizza and apathy. What is attractive is balance: someone who eats well, exercises regularly, and still knows how to enjoy a burger without spiraling. So yes, being fit is physically attractive. But a “dad bod” isn’t unattractive either, as long as the person is aiming for a healthy middle ground. And let’s be honest—having similar goals (and similar ideas of what “healthy” looks like) probably has a lot to do with what we find attractive in the first place.
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I’ve just seen this thread but that is spot on from what I’ve heard
 
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