First date

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  1. witchygirl

    witchygirl Well-Known Member

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    A little bored and was wondering what your ideal first 'date' would be...
     
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  2. All_In_The_Words

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    So many choices.

    I'd like a meal, a few drinks. Walk by the sea. Then the hope that a 2nd would be on the cards if everything went right.
     
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  3. Jinxy

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    I think you hae to do something like go for a drink and then if you are getting along go for a walk or to see a band or something ... ahh i dont know been years since i have had a first date hahaha
     
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  4. witchygirl

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    Ive never been on one lol x
     
  5. Jinxy

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    what???no .. first dates are fun or really awkward ...
     
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  6. Jinxy

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    @Dcdevon start making plans now!
     
  7. All_In_The_Words

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    Tend to find they are really awkward myself. So much to talk about. But the worry you'll say the wrong thing and scare a person off..
     
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  8. Jinxy

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    i think the best one i had we went to the zoo ... so you could walk around and look at things and have things to talk about ... and i got to see how he reacted to different people and animals.

    we had fun but he was quickly friend zoned.
     
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  9. Semper

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    The zoo is a great idea! I like “Main Street” strolls for similar reasons...meet up, plenty to spark conversation, stroll and chat, then decide if it’s coffee house date, or cocktails, or dinner.
     
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  10. witchygirl

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    I think @Dcdevon is taking me to the zoo when i go over x
     
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  11. Jinxy

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    ahh nice ... :)
     
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  12. TheRealSlimLady

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    Definitely a breakfast date, you need to see what you're gonna be waking up to every morning right? :p

    No I jest, I'm really not that shallow. I don't care as long as she can go with the flow as I do, and have a cracking sense of humour, then we could go anywhere, do anything...
     
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  13. DayPlay5

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    Something very simple, meet for Coffee/Tea at Mid Day, in a comfortable public place. Good conversation so both can gage intetrest. Planned for a short time, all kept on a very relaxed, no pressure basis.

    If there is a spark, we'll both know it. ;)
     
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  14. Silk-BG

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    So many options, morning, lunch or dinner, each one with its own advantages and disadvantages.
    Personally, the ability to just talk, and know one another allows things to progress, if you're starting from there then you decide what happens next.
     
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  15. Dcdevon

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    Aww poor dude! Sorry as a guy that's my automatic reaction to ' friend zone '
     
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  16. Kris1973

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    Oh the usual drink, coffee, chat and parachute jump. Oh that didn't go down well excuse the pun.
     
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  17. Jinxy

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    If a guy suggested thay as a first date I think I would let him buy me the drink and then tell him to go jump. :)
     
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  18. Andy32

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    I like the food/drinks then activity idea - if there is chemistry straight off then I'd go simple with a long walk somewhere picturesque and relatively quiet, allow the conversation and company to take the starring role.

    If the chemistry needs a little work, then something more active - zoo is a great choice for that, or even something like a busy harbour side

    Dinner then cinema is still classic (independent cinema, ideally a large theatre style, balcony, intermission etc), but it's a second/third date material - when you are looking to move on from conversation.
     
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  19. Jinxy

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    @Andy32 is looking to get lucky in the balcony
     
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  20. WomenRfromVenus

    WomenRfromVenus Well-Known Member

    Defo outdoor activity on first date. I like the freedom of movement and distraction. While making acquaintance with a stranger. Versus being confined face to face across a dinner table. Fumbling to make convo. Lol
     
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