Hello all. Is anyone here honest and brave enough to say they have fallen out of love with someone? When did you know you didn't love them anymore? Was it a slow realisation or a moment where everything became clear? I am asking for myself...
Yes I have.... it just happened over time. Became more like roommates, than a couple. Umm I just woke up one morning and was thinking " this can't be it?" Lol. Did the whole marriage counseling, didn't help. I loved him, but I wasn't "in love" with him anymore. Make sense?
Yes. The relationship was volatile and it got to the point where we disliked each other to the point of hate. It limped along for the best part of 6 to 12 months. When it ended it was like a massive weight had been lifted. I kind of realised I was falling out of love when I wasn't bothered about the arguing any more, it didn't hurt and I didn't give a toss if she didn't speak to me for a couple of days. I enjoyed the peace.
Yes....I remember looking in the mirror...saying to myself....”I’d be better off emotionally living on my own...told her to make more of an effort....I guess we both felt that way though...you live and you learn.
When you have been put down just once to often and your soul is broken i just looked at him and thought 'i hate you'
When you start to wonder if you could get away with burying them under the patio... that's about the time it dawns on you.
Fell out of love when she walked away at the time i needed her most but she was all i had so didnt let go. Was not till i did my bone marrow transplant for my brother i had no support from her, it was more like an inconvenience for her. Then she said blatantly "hes going to die anyway its a waste of time". it ended it to me.
You have to remember there are billions of people on this planet.. but you only have one life. If you're not happy with someone, move on..
Yep the things I didn't like about her personality became a bigger deal at some point and I realized it was because the positive feelings that made them small things were gone. It happens but if you aren't happy let it go. You're a sexy girl with a great personality you can find someone who you feel meets your needs. And it's cool being single for a minute too.
You don’t stop loving someone suddenly, for no reason. When you start to motivate yourself to love him, something is wrong there. Don’t waste your time. Successful relationship partners ideally help one another to be the best people they can be so when you’re spending more time crying and being miserable and trying to fix the relationship instead of actually being in the relationship. Your mind realizes you need out. It will become clear as hell very soon probably. That’s why it might hurt...
No, never fallen out of love. If you can fall out of love with someone, I don't believe you had ever truely fallen in love in the first place. In my opinion.
