With what you have said, I suppose you will have your threshold too. For me - discovering that the other person had bad intentions for me, and was already doing it
I've only ever truely been in love with 1 person. Of course I love my parents, and my daughter & whatnot, but to be in love with someone is something completely different. I can never fall out of love with that person.
If it's not in your nature to be physically violent then there's no shame in admitting that. Nobody should raise their hands to anybody, male or female.
My ex also liked throwing things like knifes and plates usually in my direction. In the 14 years together i never laid a finger on her.
But what if walking away will change everything else in your world that is so amazing? Being not in love but being content in your life....
My ex is a nice man sober....but drunk i still cop 50 to 60 abusive texts makes me go numb and scares the hell out of me x so i understand x
Probably because single life is stereotyped. You might think that if you're walking away, there must be something wrong with you, and no one wants to feel that way about themselves. That’s why some people stay in bad relationships longer. The irony is, less discrimination against single people would also be good for people who want to be coupled, because they could approach that desire from a position of strength…something they want, rather than running to coupling or staying in a bad relationship because they're afraid of being single. But seeking solitude can actually be quite healthy. Spending time with myself and gaining a better understanding of who I am, is helping me to make better choices about who I want to be around. But I admit, it can be a challenge to find time alone in a world that seems to get crazier every day.
Wouldn't blame you if you did. I'm completely against hitting women but you start chucking knives at me then sorry but everyone has a right to defend themselves and that line has been well and truly crossed the moment weapons are involved.
Don't think she ever loved me i was a free ride. We had some amazing times but her psychotic moment wrecked it all. When everything was going her way she was fine till i said no.
But I’m in a good relationship in every other way, just not a lot of love and affection involved ... so when I look at my single friends lives mine still looks so much better.
What were the factors that made you stay for as long as you did? The children? Or you were still trying to make it work?
