So I've been pondering the question more and more lately as I log into chat to the same pms.. Do y'all men get together and discuss technique.. Is there a play book you use when meeting a female for the first time in chat.. (yes obvious sarcasm) and yes there are some exceptions.. I'm not looping all men into this category.. Some can carry on actual intelligent conversations.. Unfortunately those seem to be the rarity .. Don't get me wrong I'm no saint ..But the standard.. "Hey baby.. Age and location..are you single.. What are you here for" .. Followed immediately by one of two comments.. "What you look like/ got a pic" .. Or my favorite ice breaker.. "I'm horny" I mean c'mon guys..put some effort in..just saying Do any other ladies find you yourself in similar situations? Can't believe it's just me they message..just gets old fast
I am in total agreement with and I'm a man. It gets old hearing the same thing from others who want to chat with you and like you I'm not a saint. I would like to have a normal conversation once in awhile. Thanks for bringing this up.
I find it rather time saving. I can not be bothered replying to chat's that start like that and that saves time. Anyone worth talking to will have a worthwhile greeting. The rest can keep looking. I call it 'self-elimination'. Ls x
You mean those things DON'T work? lol I question the "woman" that goes for those things anyway. I assure you, we're not all bad. Some (few) of the men around here are capable of being gentlemen, and having conversations
Exactly! You think they'd understand that..I get messages from the same people repeatedly..same standard lines..ignored
Sadly enough you're a minority.. But yes I've met some who are worth engaging in conversation with.. It's the overwhelming amount of others I find frustrating..almost comically so
I find it rather refreshing. I'm usually inundated with articulate greetings that border on the writings of a professional. I wish someone would just say "hey sexy" more often. Dumb it down a bit, would ya? Not all the time, of course, but every once in a while, maybe... jeesh.
Even saying something like, 'Hello, if you aren't busy, perhaps you would enjoy chatting for a while?' is better than 95% of what I get now. Ls x
No kidding.. It's online so why act human..would love to know how some of these fools treat a woman irl
Clueless, springs to mind. Socially inept fits like a glove as well. Selfish 'Its all about ME ME ME' .. Respect? To hell with that shit.. etc. Ls x
So this is an adult chat site for us men that means sexting and no actual game required. Some of us ha e learned otherwise. Most not so much. It took me a few days. Now I look at this place like any other bar. I am on my best behavior 7nless specially asked not to be. Hope you find what you’re looking for. Feel free to hit me up anytime if you need to talk or vent. Happy hunting!
Best behavior not required.. We're all grown here.. common sense would be nice though.. Seems it's severely lacking in chat.. Glad to hear you have it though lol
