how do i live my life to the fullest

littlelion18

littlelion18

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i’ve had this constant debate with myself with myself. constantly thinking and questioning if i’m actually living my life to the fullest and having fun. all my friends pretty much do drugs and drink and obviously there’s nothing wrong with that. but i question with myself if i need to do that to get out there. to get out of my room and explore. i don’t drive yet and i just, idk. i know i’m still young and figuring everything out but, fuck, it’s hard. never knowing if you’re doing the right thing or if you should just go out there and say fuck it. idk. and i know none of this probably makes sense lol. just, had to get my thoughts out.
 
I always believe that to live life to its fullest, you must not care what others may think of you nor compare yourself to others.
You are you, and there wont ever be another one like you, so do whatever you want as long as you are safe.
 
First step is to recognise you need/want the change. Acting on it is the hard part.
I've found exercise helps with feeling better about your self.
I'm past 40 and still trying to work shit out.
 
Its such a hard thing to quantify to be honest hun. It's all down to how you feel, when your honest with yourself. I personally feel that as long as your happy, then your living your life to the fullest. Happiness is what we should all strive for and that looks different for everyone. Remember it's your life no one else's so do what makes you happy and you won't have time to question your choices xxx
 
littlelion18 said:
i’ve had this constant debate with myself with myself. constantly thinking and questioning if i’m actually living my life to the fullest and having fun. all my friends pretty much do drugs and drink and obviously there’s nothing wrong with that. but i question with myself if i need to do that to get out there. to get out of my room and explore. i don’t drive yet and i just, idk. i know i’m still young and figuring everything out but, fuck, it’s hard. never knowing if you’re doing the right thing or if you should just go out there and say fuck it. idk. and i know none of this probably makes sense lol. just, had to get my thoughts out.
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I know its hard but try not to get too caught up in the present. Your life as you know it now will probably be very different a decade from now. Try to focus on a goal or a few goals, something that will make you happy and proud of yourself for having achieved, and go out there and achieve it. However small. Then do it again for something else, and something else.

Be adaptable. Never think too far ahead and set very high life defining goals for yourself and go out and tick the boxes that you can do in the short/medium term. Trust in yourself and go create a version of yourself that you love. Contentment in your own head and your own skin is the source of all strength and happiness.

Lastly, nobody gets life perfect. Setbacks happen. Progress is rarely a straight line upward, it dips and spikes, but if you stay focused it will trend upward. Don't compare yourself to others, and try to focus on keeping yourself on track towards your goals and becoming a better version of yourself than you were yesterday.
 
Don't compare yourself to everyone else. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
 
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