I keep fantasizing about the guy that emotionally manipulated me and took my virginity. What should I do? I'm in pain...
Find a different guy. You'll forget about the first guy soon enough. We, humans, are fickle creatures. Time ends everything.
Probably about 2 dozen appropriate clichés for this situation, and if they weren’t true they wouldn’t be clichés. I’ll offer: Live & learn darling. 7 odd billion people in this world and they come in all different types…
I think you should occupy your time with other things. Relationships probably are not a great idea right now. I think you should pick up a new hobby, do things you love, pick up a hobby you haven't done in a while, see friends, talk to somebody, do art, and keep your mind off of him. I would suggest blocking this person, not talking to them and moving on. I obviously don't know your situation, but i've been in a similar situation. Within time, you should move onto another person, but right now moving onto another person doesn't seem like a great idea. I would also suggest that therapy can be a great tool if you're completely lost and have nobody to listen to you.
Everyone has their own path in life to travel....so please take what I say with a grain or two of salt. When faced with a issue...I ask : Is what I am doing helpful or hurtful.... Are these actions , thoughts or words going to get me what I want... What do I want or need ( note that there is a difference ) to have happen next... I would suggest that you focus on more positive things and people. What has happened , while hurtful , has happened...you can't change it. Dwelling on the past may cause you to loose sight of present and the opportunities that surround you. We are the sum of our experiences , as someone much wiser than me said.... To live a life free of hurts , is to live a life without the full sensation of joy. Andy
You need a guy whose been emotionally manipulated by female No one understands pain more than the one's sipping it A perfect fit I'd say
