Advice and Opinion I need help

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  1. sophiebaby00

    sophiebaby00 Well-Known Member FCN Regular

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    I keep fantasizing about the guy that emotionally manipulated me and took my virginity. What should I do? I'm in pain...
     
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  2. Stanthropical

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    Find a different guy. You'll forget about the first guy soon enough. We, humans, are fickle creatures. Time ends everything.
     
  3. SoMeFred

    SoMeFred Well-Known Member FCN Regular

    Probably about 2 dozen appropriate clichés for this situation, and if they weren’t true they wouldn’t be clichés.

    I’ll offer: Live & learn darling. 7 odd billion people in this world and they come in all different types…
     
  4. Busty_Nerd

    Busty_Nerd The Thicc Admin Staff Member FCN Regular

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    I think you should occupy your time with other things. Relationships probably are not a great idea right now. I think you should pick up a new hobby, do things you love, pick up a hobby you haven't done in a while, see friends, talk to somebody, do art, and keep your mind off of him. I would suggest blocking this person, not talking to them and moving on. I obviously don't know your situation, but i've been in a similar situation. Within time, you should move onto another person, but right now moving onto another person doesn't seem like a great idea. I would also suggest that therapy can be a great tool if you're completely lost and have nobody to listen to you.
     
  5. Andylovesreading

    Andylovesreading Member FCN Regular

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    Everyone has their own path in life to travel....so please take what I say with a grain or two of salt.

    When faced with a issue...I ask :
    Is what I am doing helpful or hurtful....
    Are these actions , thoughts or words going to get me what I want...
    What do I want or need ( note that there is a difference ) to have happen next...

    I would suggest that you focus on more positive things and people.

    What has happened , while hurtful , has happened...you can't change it.
    Dwelling on the past may cause you to loose sight of present and the opportunities that surround you.

    We are the sum of our experiences , as someone much wiser than me said....
    To live a life free of hurts , is to live a life without the full sensation of joy.
    Andy
     
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  6. Bigboy30

    Bigboy30 Guest

    You need a guy whose been emotionally manipulated by female
    No one understands pain more than the one's sipping it
    A perfect fit I'd say :D
     
  7. Gigio8o

    Gigio8o Well-Known Member FCN Regular

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    that's terrible advice..
    ..haha
     
  8. YadaYada

    YadaYada Guest

    Confront the guy so you may have some closure. Eventually you will have to move on.
     
  9. Jayjay771

    Jayjay771 Member FCN Regular

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    Find someone new
     
  10. Lady_Katniss

    Lady_Katniss New Member

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    The others spoke it best. Find a better person to put your minds focus on.
     
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  11. NewMessiah

    NewMessiah Guest

    How did he manipulate you?
     
  12. Namealreadyinuse

    Namealreadyinuse Member FCN Regular

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    Feel free to talk to me.
     
  13. thefunone83

    thefunone83 Guest

    Therapy
     

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