I'm sharing bed with a male friend right now. He's a nice guy and I don't want our friendship to be ruined. But I'm triggered like hell right now and am tossing around in bed for some relief, secretly wishing to be touched by him, to feel him up. What should I do? Can someone put some sense into my sex addicted brain?
Obviously you do but does he? sounds like he's out for the count so tread carefully. if the friendship is more important you dont want to ruin it. Damn I become responsible.
Hmmm I would say take into consideration how long you have been friends. If you have known him a long time it could be akward. And if it happens even more akward after the fact. But if he is a more recent friend maybe just go for it. But again there is the chance shit could get weird after. Also have you noticed anything that would make you think he is attracted to you in that way? It could be he is but just doesn't want to be That Guy lol
Lol! Now that the battle is over my friends have come to ask if I survived. You gossip-mongers!!! Nothing happened because I couldn't take it anymore so I got up and went to sleep with my female friends in their Queen bed. So, it's 5 of us sharing a 2 bedroom cabin in lake Tahoe - 3 girls and 2 guys. Two girls slept in one bed, one guy slept on the couch, leaving me and the remaining guy to share the other bed.
Thank you for not keeping us in suspense. I'm glad nobody got their head bit off and devoured. That would have been no fun at all. At least, for the devouree. Not that I'm judging here, mind you.
Yes, I think so. It was a rare exercise in self control. I know it would have been a spicier story the other way but wouldn't have been worth the risk.
This arrangement would generally be called afriend with benefits, or a fuck buddy, or a romantic friendship, or perhaps even a relationship—with “no strings ...
I'm glad I'm catching up on this thread after we already have an answer -- the suspense would have been too much! I don't want you to second a decision that you can't unmake, but doesn't it seem strange that the sleeping arrangement happened to leave the two of you together? Regardless, I'm proud of your self control... had it been me, I would have been all over him.