Jelousy

You two are somekind of special together!

 

I have this problem where, when I'm happy, all I can think about is what will inevitably take my happiness away again.

 

I know Ray. I love this about you. But I need to deal with this because I know you hate this with a vengeance.

 

Omg Right there!!! Same exact feeling.

 

The worst part is, I cant turn it down, yknow?

 

Jealousy comes from somewhere, it doesn't just pop up out of nowhere.
Something has happen that has caused a person to feel this way..

 

It's almost automatic when it comes on but a struggle to turn off. I hear ya girl!!

 

It may be awful to say this, but Its nice to see someone else who gets it.

 

So true CV. In my case, I've ran away from every relationship I've been in. Going gets tough, be happy, see ya!

But know I wanna stay and fight. But the battles seem to be in my mind not reality.

 

Mines more insecurity (past relationship)

 

Ray has this saying that make me cry

Understand first, Question never, Love always.

I cry because understanding why I'm so afraid of losing this happiness instead of enjoying it is so hard for me.

 

Yall sugar coat it and its sweet..
Fact is your partner has to make you feel secure, thats not on you..

 

Trust me, I get it. *hugs you*

 

Hi there Nikki, I was reading the thread, and from all the other things that I have read on your page and lastone's the only thing I can come up with was this.
I hope you are doing good hun <3 xoxo.

 

I just wanted to post something else here, to all of the couples here on FCN ...I wish you all the best...I love love and love to see people happy...<3 xoxo

 

Good point brother!

It really is on both sides. One side can do as much as they can to make the other feel comfortable. But if being visible to her 100% of the time is the solution, it aint happening. Thats impossible.

Jealousy happens to all of us and talking about the situation is the only way out. I respect my partner enough to always listen.

@nikkiray this wont be the only time you will feel this way, but I promise you will always be able to talk about it. I know you feel the same with me.

 

I'm doing better Heather. Having a tough time adjusting to being away from home after spending my days with ray the past 2 weeks.

Thank you for this message. You made me smile soo much. ((Hugs))

 

You're very welcome hun. You and a wonderful person Nikki, I don't get to talk with you much but I love your personality and sense of humor. I am off to bed been studying for an exam I have to take the end of the month. I hope you and Ray have a wonderful evening take care hun <3 xoxo

 

Nighty night lovely heather. Thank you again!

 

LOL!!! @ jealousy