Opinion Lesbian Bed Death

[CuntasticMcWetness]

Thoughts on LBD (Lesbian Bed Death)? Anecdotes, advice, and random contextual thoughts welcome!

From my experience, the struggle is real! Despite being a very sexual and communicative person, in every long term relationship there was a devolution to LBD.

If this is the wrong place to post this, sorry...

 

[Deleted member 264383]

The research has been criticized for its methodology and because sexual activity decreases for all long-term couples regardless of sexual orientation.

On the end it depent for the people involved how active they going to keep they sexual life.

The struggle maybe real but it all depents on how much each of you put into the realationship so much factors is involved here not just being sexual or a good communicator.

But it is def not just a Lesbian problem.

 

[Busty_Nerd]

What @SweetLesGirl said, Lesbian bed death seems kinda biased against lesbians like it's a lesbian only issue when actually it's a problem that most people who have long term relationships will experience. This is a problem that happens to everyone of any sexual orientation including hetero people. If you've been with your partner long enough things do tend to cool down and when you get too comfortable things tend to get boring or too familiar. Some couples never experience this, while other end up going to couples therapy or divorcing.

Ultimately I think open communication and seeing a therapist can be very helpful if you don't know where to start. So you can address you and your partner(s) needs/wants (and yours as well) and then you can go see where to go from there.