Travesty To many of the girls who say that they love to RP, some simple observations...

Yeah....
I love writing, and if you say you want detailed OK.
It's not just sexting even general conversation.
I read everyone's info so I can get a feel of who they are & .....

Writing is a lot of work. It's enjoyable but still work.

You have to give something back on that effort and when you don't well, that's on you.

It's a fucking chat site, so chat. You just being there means nothing.

I'm hoping to find some familiars, but so far, eh

 

And I’m back with another bitch and a moan- so recently in the rp chat I’ve been responding to female requests for BDSM, dominance and rough play. Interestingly after requesting detailed in depth role play, as soon as they seem to get what they need they sign off without a word - it’s very much a “wham bam thank you man” situation- which is uncool as it leaves your humble writer who again has done the heavy lifting in terms of scene creation activities and generally the imaginative work - kinda holding his dick in his hands- score one for female empowerment and a lot more points for just being rude. After doing the cum and dash on me 2 nights in a row, the very next night I saw the same person with a bot post trolling for the next unfortunate victim. So if the attitude is just to take and not give don’t be surprised when you requests begin to be ignored.

 

I'm sorry.

 

This take is rediculous. It's disrespectful to waste somebody's time like that, and quite frankly, if it were a lady having this problem with men, everyone would take her side. We can't act like men don't deserve respect simply because there's a lot of us.

Everyone deserves respect. Everyone. I don't intend to waste time and get someone excited only to leave without warning, I expect the same consideration in return.

 

Notice how there aren't 500 men complaining in this thread.

 

I agree that it's super rude and makes them look like not the best people but isn't it important to know that so you can move on? I'm more than a little disappointed at how many fall for it though.. there'll always be women who thing they're going to win the lottery by playing the numbers and there'll always be guys dumb enough to cater to them. Lose lose.

 

Lol, so how many are there 499? (just a joke..)

 

Maybe because a large number of guys know that they are just getting what they give... you got no logical right to complain if you're doing the same thing. You know .... the pot calling the kettle black dichotomy.
I'm " complaining " that someone who ghosts on me as revenge for someone else being a lame fuck in rp is an ineffective tactic to take And it sometimes makes me put out less effort and quality because it happens all too often and is almost predictable. I'd guess that 6 out of 10 partners who say they want a slow build up that doesn't jump directly to sex will most likely RP for a long period of time (the build up) only to disappear in a heartbeat at the first mention of sex (the misdirected payback).
That doesn't include the girls who rp "I'm fertile and in heat- breed me and get me pregnant", or "use all my holes and drown me in cum" who are clueless on the concept of what needs to happen to fulfil those desires. They must have failed miserably in Sex Ed!!
How many have actually made it to a logical end to a sexual RP?
How many who do actually say "thank you" or compliment their partner? Or receive either of those? Not that it's mandatory, but a little courtesy goes a long way.
Just saying......

 

..... Sad but true.

 

-- yeah I don't understand the whole unasked for and unwanted dick pic and the orders to "make me nut, slut".
As far as I know, most girls do not want to see a dick pic, unless they ask for it. I don't even have a dick pic... that fucker is camera shy!

 

I don't think I could have said it any better, thank you!
I'll just add to that "heavy lifting, do all the work" thingy. I don't reply to any "gangbang girl". I am NOT going to do the work of 3,5, or 17 guys and try to make it sound realistic and then have to wait 4 minutes for a 5 word reply " mmmm fuck me harder, faster". No thanks!
And a real group chat gang bang is even more ridiculous and unreal. You'll never get a group of guys who can actually make a gb flow and sound real... All you get is 8 or 15 guys flipping a chic around unrealistically like a cat on a hot tin roof. With 3 or more other cocks using the same holes in different positions at the same time. And guys disappearing and guys jumping in, and the whole thing goes off the rail in under 3 minutes....especially when the girl is still posting in the room for her gangbang fantasy.
Again... no thanks, have fun with that!

 

Unfortunately the first thing to disappear in most chat environments is common courtesy and respect. Anonymity showing an ugly aspect.

 

Tbh I don't feel like this is a gendered thing. So many people online pretend to be something or want something that they don't. We've all been emboldened by the ability to fly through the internet with no consequences especially when the encounters are sexual. I know that for me personally it goes like this:

1. I get horny
2. I masturbate a bit
3. I open some kind of porn or adult website to get off even more
4. Maybe I send some nudes somewhere in there
5. I'm not horny anymore so I ghost and move on

It's not about actually forging relationships or being genuine. It's about getting off...that's it. I don't think anyone actually trying to do those things (forge relationships/be genuine) is on these sites. People ghost because at the end of the day we don't know each other and we won't matter to one another tomorrow. If you wanna make it into a "woman moment" go ahead, but that's not going to change the fact that this kind of thing happens to everyone. I've been ghosted and I do the ghosting, but it doesn't affect me because I know it's not that deep for either person involved.

If you want a connection you need to get on a dating site or go outside. That's the only way it really works in my opinion.

 

I love it when men pm me and say
I'm from Uranus
So hawt

 

Haha, that's funny I've heard Uranus is very cold..