WHY DO YOUNG MEN LIKE OLDER WOMEN? WHY R OLDER MEN AFRAID OF OLDER WOMEN?

I WONDER WHY IT IS YOUNGER MEN HIT ON ME ALL THE TIME ON FCN, EVEN IN REAL LIFE SOMETIMES?

WHY R OLDER MEN AFRAID TO FALL IN LOVE WITH AN OLDER WOMAN WITHIN THEIR AGE RANGE?

WHY R MEN AFRAID TO GIVE YOU A CHANCE TO KNOW THEM IN REAL LIFE? HOW DO U GET TO KNOW ANYONE IF U NEVER MEET THEM IN PERSON?

I MUST ADMIT I AM A STRONG WOMAN, WHO TAKES CARE OF MYSELF. I ALSO, ADMIT TO GETTING TO THE POINT. I DON'T WANT TO PLAY HEAD GAMES, OR TEASE. I WANT TO GET TO KNOW U, WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT? I DON'T WANT IT TO TAKE DECADES! LOL IF I CAN MEET U IN PERSON, DON'T YOU THINK THAT IS BEST? PICTURES PAINT A THOUSAND WORDS, I'D RATHER YOU HEAR MY WORDS IN PERSON, THEN READ COLD NO EMOTION WORDS ON A SCREEN.

I WAS RAISED WHEN PEOPLE ACTUALLY MET EACH OTHER, AND TOOK THINGS FROM THERE. NOT THIS COMPUTER SHIT! UGH WHEN IS A MAN GOING TO MAN UP, INSTEAD OF WASTING MY TIME? I DO THINGS NOW LIKE IF I LIKE SOMEONE I WILL TELL THEM RIGHT OFF. CAUSE I'M 60! LOL I DON'T HAVE THE LUXURY OF TIME ANYMORE TO WASTE TO TRY AND MEET NEW GUYS. I DON'T WANT TO BED U AT FIRST MEETING, I WANT TO SEE U IN PERSON, AND GET TO KNOW U IN PERSON. THEN, GIVEN A LITTLE TIME, MAYBE WE WILL B FRIENDS, OR, TAKE IT UP A STEP. WHO KNOWS!

SO MEN TELL ME YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS TOPIC, CAUSE IT'S DRIVING ME CRAZY! GRRRRRRRRRR! LOL BE HONEST, DON'T WANT THE BS, K!

 

Very well said, and comes from your heart... Wish YOU the very BEST in 2023, and may all your WANTS and NEEDS come to YOU this year...

 

TO THE ABOVE POSTING... LOOK THIS IS A LEGIT QUESTION SEEKING HONEST ANSWERS. THIS THREAD IS NOT A PLACE TO GAIN POINTS TO BE MOST POPULAR ON FORUMS! TAKE DOWN DUPLICATE REPLIES MADE WORD FOR WORDS ON ANY OF MY THREADS. I DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE ON YOUR NONSENSE TO GAIN POINTS! GROW UP!

*STARFIRE*

 

57 here and women in my age range don't scare me at all as for the older younger thing I think that younger folks are attracted to older people who still are confident and desirable

 

Just the same way young girls like old men

 

Who is afraid of older woman?

Maybe some guys are afraid that they are too confident

 

MAYBE IF THAT IS THE CASE, IT'S THE MAN WHO IS INSECURE, SO HE FEARS A SMART, STRONG WOMAN? THAT'S MY THEORY LOL

 

UM THAT WOULD B WRONG... YOUNGER WOMEN ONLY LIKE OLD MEN FOR THEIR MONEY HUNNY! LOL

 

Thats not true...old guys are mostly generous to young ladies... that's what my perception is

Atleast that's why i like elder guys

 

FIRST OF ALL R U BLONDE? I CAN'T BELIEVE U SAID THAT. SECOND, R U GAY? IF SO THIS IS THE WRONG THREAD FOR U, K... MOVE ALONG SMH

 

Why can't you accept that someone has a different opinion than you. No need to be rude to her.

And yes of course it's the guys insecurity that he is looking for a younger woman.
And it's not that they don't like strong woman, they are just afraid that she is not interested in him because of his insecurities.

 

CAN'T TELL IT'S A MALE OR FEMALE FROM THAT NIC, K...

ALSO, I AM 60 YRS OLD, I KNOW MEN. OLDER A MAN IS, THE LESS HIS DICK WORKS! WHY DO YOU THINK OLDER WOMEN MIGHT WANT A YOUNGER MAN? HMMM?

ALSO, THEY DON'T CALL THEM GOLD DIGGERS FOR NOTHING, THE UGLY YOUNGER WOMEN WHO RATHER GET A BOOB JOB TO GET A MAN, THEN BY HER MERITS IN LIFE.

OLDER MEN WANT THAT TROPHY WIFE TO GO WITH THEIR LONG EARNED BANK ACCT BALANCE. THEY KNOW THEIR DICK CAN'T HANDLE IT ANYMORE, SO THEIR BACK UP IS THEIR BANK ACCT..

I JUST HAD A GUY DIVORCE HIS TROPHY WIFE, WHO HAD EYES ON ME! LOL WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE? I KNOW WHAT IT WAS, I'M IN USA, HE'S IN CANADA. I'M NOT STUPID, AND HE WASN'T EYE APEALING TO ME ANYWAY. STILL NOT INTERESTED IN HIM, I DON'T CARE HE OWNS HIS OWN BUSINESS, HAS, OR, HAD MONEY? NOW HE HAS AN EX WIFE, HE ALSO HAS YOUNG KIDS, AND NOW BAGGAGE! I AM NO HOME WRECKER, AND NO I DON'T HAVE KIDS, NOR DO I WANT THEM COMING ALONG WITH THE GUY I MAY BE INTERESTED IN, I WANT MY LIFE DRAMA FREE! LOL

I WOULD SUGGEST PEEPS POST WHO, OR, WHAT THEY R MORE CLEARLY, K. DON'T GET BUTT HURT WITH MY BLUNT HONESTY. OPINION? NAH, I'VE LIVED LONG ENOUGH TO BE WISE, SOMETIMES WE GET BURNED, AND SOMETIMES WE LEARN! LOL

 

Young men like older women to fuck because they don't have to put up with all the drama that comes with young women, what the old women don't understand is, that it's not for love, its just to fuck. Old men on the other hand know that old women (who are single/career women) (not widowed) tend to display all of the characteristics of men, and/or understand that older women whom have chosen career or to be single and mingle for a long time have now hit the wall, and cannot offer anything to the older men. young men understand this also, which is why they only fuck, not love.

 

WHAT U STATED HERE IS, THAT YOUNGER, AND OLDER MEN, SIMPLY WANT TO DO WHAT MEN HAVE ALWAYS DONE, THEY ONLY WANT TO FUCK, AS U PUT IT. IT DOESN'T MATTER THE AGE, THAT'S ALL MEN WANT AT ANY AGE. EVEN IN NATURE UNLESS PROGRAMMED BY MOTHER NATURE TO BE MONOGOMUS, IT IS THE SAME THING.

I SAW A PROGRAM THAT STATED THAT MEN WOO WOMEN NOT FOR LOVE BUT TO GET WHAT THEY WANT WHICH IS SEX. THEY R NOT IN IT FOR LOVE, THEIR BEHAVIORS TOWARD WOMEN IS TO WOO HER TO GET LAID! LOL

ON THE OTHER HAND WOMEN, WANT LOVE, SO, TO GET THAT THEY HAVE TO WOO A MAN WITH SEX! THEY KNOW THAT'S ALL HE WANTS, SO HE HAS TO SHOW HER THE RING, OR, NO WET DING A LING! LOL SOWWY, FOR THE SILLY REMARK, IT SIMPLY RHYMED.

WOMEN WANT TO BE LOVED, MEN WANT SEX. SO, WHAT DOES EACH PERSON HAVE TO DO TO GET WHAT THEY WANT? MEN HAVE TO WOO A WOMAN WITH WHATEVER HE FEELS SHE IS SEEKING, THAT WAY HE CAN GET LAID!

THE WOMAN HAS TO BE WILLING TO GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS, SO SHE CAN GET WHAT SHE WANTS, WHICH IS TO BE LOVED.

WHEN BOTH R FAIRLY YOUNG, IT GET'S COMPLICATED, DUE TO UNEXPECED PREGNANCY, AND HOW THEY DEAL WITH THAT FACT. OR, HOW HE'S GOING TO GET SEX, WITHOUT GETTING HER PREGNANT, AND HIM BEING RELUCTANT, OR, DRAFTED BY GUILT IN SOME FORM, TO MARRY HER, SO HIS(SPAWN), KIDS ARE NOT BASTARDS.

SADLY, NOWADAYS, THEY CALL MEN WHO JUST DON'T GIVE A RATS ASS ABOUT THEIR KIDS AS MUCH, TO JUST B A BABY DADDY. PAY THE WOMAN TO SUPPORT THE KIDS, AND STILL PERSUE BEING A SINGLE MAN, BUT NOW WITH RESPONSIBILITES. SOME MEN DON'T EVEN CARE ABOUT THAT, AND TRY TO FORGET THEIR(MISTAKE), IN CREATING A CHILD, THAT IS NOW THE BALL N CHAIN AROUND HIS SEX LIFE.

WOMEN WANT LOVE, MEN WANT SEX. HOW DO THEY WORK IT ALL OUT? MY THEORY IS, NOW ANYWAY, THE ONE I THINK IS BEST. YOU CAN'T GET THE MILK FROM THE COW FOR FREE! I WORKED DAIRY CATTLE I KNOW THIS ONE, K. LOL

I WAS ONCE INTERESTED IN YOUNGER MEN, NOT BY CHOICE JUST BECAUSE THEY WERE YOUNGER! I TO THIS DAY HAVE A YOUNGER MENTALITY TOWARD LIFE, AND LIVING! BUT, BEING 60 NOW, I ALSO HAVE WISDOM. THE COW THING IS TRUE, IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO EARN IT. DOESN'T MATTER WHAT IT IS... RESPECT, ADVANCEMENT IN A JOB, APPRECIATED BY OTHERS, CONSIDERED A GOOD PERSON, BY YOUR DEEDS. IT IS ALL THINGS U WANT TO EARN. NOTHING IN LIFE IS FREE... THAT IS SO TRUE.

I AM SINGLE NOT BY CHOICE, BUT BECAUSE I NEVER MET THE MAN I FELT DESERVED ME, AND WHO WANTED TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH, I HAD 4 PROPOSALS WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, TURNED THEM ALL DOWN...

IT'S NOT LIKE I WAS NEVER ASKED, I WAS! THERE R SOME NOW WHO WOULD BE GLAD TO MARRY ME I THINK. THERE R SOME EVEN HERE WHO SAY THEY LOVE ME, YET THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW ME, BECAUSE IT'S MY PERSONALITY THEY HAVE ALLOWED THEMSELVES TO FALL IN LOVE WITH, WHICH I THINK IS GREAT! ONLY ONE PROBLEM, THEY'VE NOT SEEN ME. WOULD THEY STILL FEEL THE SAME WAY KNOWING I'M 60, SOME SAY AGE DOESN'T MATTER. IT DOES IN THE END.

BEING OLDER AND WISER, I KNOW THIS, YOUNGER MEN R FINE IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE WHO ISN'T YET JADED ON RELATIONSHIPS. WHO IS STILL FINDING WONDER IN CURIOSITY ABOUT THE WORLD AROUND THEM. THAT HASN'T BEEN DESTROYED BY BAD RELATIONSHIPS, OR, HOW CRUEL THE WORLD CAN BE. WHO HAVE HAD THEIR HEART BROKEN ONE TO MANY TIMES, AND ONLY SEEK NOW WHAT THEY WANT PHYSICALLY FROM A WOMAN, WHAT HER BODY CAN GIVE HIM, NOT HER SOUL. SOME THINKING A WOMAN IS JUST A THING TO BE USED, AND DUMPED ALONG THE WAY.

SADLY, WOMEN WERE BROUGHT UP TO BELIEVE IN KNIGHTS IN SHINING ARMOUR WHO WILL SAVE THE PRINCESS FROM THE TOWER. OR, HE WILL BE HER HERO. THERE R NO HEROES IN RELATIONSHIPS. THAT TITLE ONLY GOES TO A MAN WHO HAS EARNED THE RIGHT TO BE CONSIDERED ONE. RELATIONSHIPS ARE TO BE WORKED ON, AND WHEN I SAY WORK, I MEAN GIVEN YOUR BEST EFFORT. TO BE KIND, THOUGHTFUL, CARING, LOVING, FUN, ADVENTUREOUS, CURIOUS, WILLING TO PUT IN THE EFFORT TO EARN WHAT THEY WANT, WHILE GIVING HER WHAT SHE WANTS. I DON'T MEAN MONITARY THINGS, FORGET GOLD DIGGERS. I MEAN MEN WHO WANT THAT HEART OF GOLD FROM HER, WHO TRULY DO CARE, WHO DO WANT LOVE, NOT JUST SEX. CAUSE WHEN YOUR BED IS EMPTY ON A COLD WINTERS NIGHT, AND YOU LOOK IN THE MIRROR AS YOU SEE THE YEARS STEALING AWAY THOSE GOOD LOOKS, AND U REALIZE U R ALONE, NOT LONELY, BUT ALONE. U WILL WISH U HADN'T BEEN SO HEARTLESS, AND SELFISH IN WHAT U WANTED, WITHOUT PUTTING IN THE EFFORT TO PLEASE THE OTHER PERSON, AS MUCH AS THEY MAY HAVE PLEASED YOU.

I WISH THEY WOULD REWRITE THE ROLES WOMEN AND MEN R GIVEN. WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A MAN, OR, WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A WOMAN, I MEAN STRAIGHT PEOPLE HERE. I DON'T WANT TO MAKE THIS COMPLICATED, AND DIVERT FROM THE THEME OF THIS THREAD.

IN NATURE MALE AND FEMALE COME TOGETHER TO PROCREATE. HUMANS HAVE OVER RUN THIS PLANET TO THE POINT THAT EACH NEW HUMAN BEING THAT IS BORN, WILL SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF THIS EARTH OUR ONE TRUE EDEN, EVEN MORE THEN WE DO NOW. THAT WE DON'T NEED TO PROCREATE. ONCE WE DID TO HAVE OFFSPRING TO HELP ON THE FAMILY FARM. THAT WAS THE ONLY REASON PEOPLE WERE ENCOURAGED TO HAVE CHILDREN. ALSO, LACK OF QUALITY MEDICAL CARE, AND DISEASE MEANT, THAT YOU NEEDED TO HAVE MANY CHILDREN DUE TO THE COMMON DANGERS OF LIFE, THAT YOU NEEDED FAMILY TO STAY WITH ONCE YOU BECAME ELDERLY, TO RETIRE WITH, AND BE CARED FOR BY FAMILY TIL U PASSED. THOSE WITH MONEY PAID FOR THEIR RETIREMENTS, AND CARE. BACK WHEN THERE WAS NO SOCIAL SECURITY BENEFITS.

I THINK FROM ALL I'VE READ HERE ON WHAT AGES, AND WHAT IDEAS R GOING ON IN THE MINDS OF MEN, THAT IT IS THE PHYSICAL CONTACT BOTH GENDERS SEEK. MEN DON'T ALWAYS WANT TO HAVE SEX, I KNOW THAT IS SHOCKING, BUT IT'S TRUE. SOMETIMES THEY JUST WANT THE COMFORT OF A WOMAN AFTER HAVING A BAD DAY AT WORK. OR, WHEN THE WORLD IS CRASHING DOWN AROUND THEM. SOME WILL DRINK OR, DO DRUGS FOR THAT PURPOSE. SOME JUST WANT TO BE COMFORTED, JUST LIKE WOMEN DO!

IT DOESN'T ALWAYS HAVE TO LEAD TO SEX. KNOWING THIS IS A SEX SITE, THAT'S WHAT MEN COME HERE FOR, EXPECTING SOME FANTASY TO BE ANSWERED HERE FOR THEM. WOMEN, I HAVE NO IDEA WHY WOMEN COME HERE. SINCE IT'S A SEX SITE. I'M SURE THERE R GOLD DIGGERS FOAMING AT THE MOUTH RIGHT NOW, WHO WON'T SAY WHAT THEIR TRUE MOTIVE FOR COMING HERE IS, IN REGARDS TO MEN.

I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF...

I DIDN'T COME HERE FOR ANYTHING, JUST TO CHAT WITH OLD FRIENDS. BUT, EVEN I IN MY MIND THINK OF ALL THE PLACES I COULD TRY TO MEET MEN, WHY NOT STAY HERE? WHY NOT TRY TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS, WHY NOT TRY TO SEE IF THERE IS A MAN HERE WHO IS SIMPLY BY ACCIDENT IN THE WRONG PLACE TO FIND WHAT HE REALLY WANTS IN LIFE.

ALL I WOULD WANT FROM A MAN AT MY AGE IS A LIFE LONG LOYAL COMPANION TO EXPLORE THE WORLD WITH ME, BEFORE I TRUELY DIE OF OLD AGE.

I SEE YOUNGER PEOPLE HERE WHO SHOULD BE OUT AND LIVING! MEETING PEEPS TO EXPLORE DATING, AND SEE IF THEY CAN FIND WHAT THEY SEEK. I THINK IT'S HORRIBLE TO COME HERE HOPING, WHEN U R A YOUNGER ADULT. WASTING TIME ON A COMPUTER IS JUST THAT, WASTING TIME.

I KNOW HOW SHORT TIME IS, I AM 60 TO LIVE TO 100 IS ONLY ANOTHER 40 YRS! PEOPLE R NOT EVEN RETIRED AT 40, I DON'T HAVE THE LUXURY OF TIME TO WASTE ANYMORE!

I CAN OFFER SUGGESTIONS TO OTHERS, BUT THAT COMES FROM MY AGE AND EXPERIENCES. I CAN'T SPEAK TO OTHERS. BUT, EVEN IN THE SINGLE MEN I KNEW AS FRIENDS, DEEP INSIDE THEY WISHED THEY HAD FOUND A LOVE OF THEIR OWN TO.

THE FACT IS DEEP INSIDE WE ALL WANT TO BE LOVED, THAT FEELING OF SECURITY AND COMFORT AGAINST THE HARD CRUEL COLD WORLD WE HAVE TO LIVE IN DAILY.

WE ALL WANT TO GO HOME, TO A HOME WHERE WE FEEL SAFE, WANTED, LOVED, AND RESPECTED. BECAUSE THE REST OF THE WORLD DOESN'T CARE. THAT'S A FACT, LIKE I SAID, IT'S SIMPLY MY THEORY, AND MY EXPERIENCES, THAT I DRAW THESE CONCLUSIONS FROM, I KNOW OF MEN HERE OF ALL AGES, WHO WANT TO BE LOVED, I CAN'T LIKE EVERYONE. I AM PICKY, BUT THAT'S ME. A ZEBRA CAN'T CHANGE IT'S STRIPES, BUT HUMANS CAN ADAPT, CHANGE, AND COMPROMISE. IF WE CHOOSE TOO!

 

JUST ONE MORE THING...

WOMAN WHO PERSUE A CAREER DON'T WANT TO BE MEN! THAT IS SIMPLY RIDICULOUS. THE FACT IS, THEY LIVE IN A MAN'S WORLD. SO TO DO BUSINESS THEY HAVE TO PLAY THE GAME THE WAY MEN DO.

REVERSE THE DOMINANT FACTORS HERE. IF IT WERE A WOMAN'S WORLD, HOW WOULD MEN BEHAVE TO GET HIGHER ON THE LADDER TO FINANCIAL SUCCESS? WOULD THEY HAVE TO ACT LIKE WOMEN? NO! LOL

IT'S HOW THIS DAMN WORLD WORKS, THAT WOMEN HAVE TO MORH INTO SOMETHING THEY'RE NOT, TO GAIN SUCCESS. LEAST IN THEIR CAREERS.

I'LL GIVE U A GOOD EXAMPLE, LOOK AT HISTORY, WHERE R THE WELL KNOWN WOMEN WHO HAVE DONE THINGS IN LIFE, TO MAKE THEM KNOWN FOR THEIR SUCCESSES THAT AFFECTED OTHER PEOPLES LIVES, HEALTH, OR, WEALTH??? LOOK AT TV, THE HOLIDAYS WERE FILLED WITH FOOTBALL GAMES ON TV FOR MEN! NOTHING FOR WOMEN TO WATCH THAT THEY WOULD FIND INTERESTING. THE STEREOTYPE OF WATCHING COOKING SHOWS, ETC., IS NOT A FEMALE THING! IT'S A MYTH! IT'S THE OLD BOYS RUNNING CORPERATIONS THAT SELL PRODUCTS, THAT THINK THEY KNOW WHAT A WOMAN, OR, MAN WANTS. THEY HAVE NO CLUE THESE DAYS. WOMEN ARE SUCCEEDING BUILDING CORPERATIONS OF THIER OWN. BUT, YOU WON'T SEE THEM MENTIONED ON TV NEWS! MEN ARE SO INSECURE, IT IS A THREAT TO THEIR IDEALS TO HAVE ANY WOMAN DO BETTER IN LIFE THEN THEMSELVES. NO MATTER THE LEVEL ON THE LADDER OF WHAT SUCCESS IS DEEMED TO BE.

YOU R WRONG ABOUT WHY YOUNGER MEN WANT OLDER WOMEN. THEY WANT OLDER WOMEN TO LEARN HOW TO BE A GREAT LOVER! THEY WANT TO LEARN ALL THE SECRETS SO, ONCE THEY HAVE LEARNED THEY CAN DUMP THE OLDER WOMAN, AND FIND A YOUNG WOMAN TO IMPRESS WITH THEIR SEXUAL KNOWLEDGE.

OLDER MEN WANT TROPHY WIVES, CAUSE TREIR DICKS DON'T WORK SO WELL ANYMORE, THEIR BACK ACHES, THERI KNEES HURT, THEIR FAT, THEY HAVE A LOWER LABIDO, AND DON'T WANT TO WORK AS HARD AT SEX, AS THEY MAY HAVE WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER MEN. THEY DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO PLEASE THE WOMAN, THEY'D RATHER HAND THEM THE CREDIT CARD TO GO SHOPPING, THEN TO GIVE A WOMAN A GOOD ORGASM. LOL OLDER WOMEN KNOW HOW TO PLEASE A MAN, AND KNOW WHAT THEY NEED TO BE PLEASED. IF A MAN HASN'T FIGURED THAT OUT BY THE TIME HE'S GOTTEN OLDER. TAKE A LOOK AT A MAN WHO IS A WORK A HOLIC. HE WANTS LOVE BUT HAS NO IDEA HOW TO GET IT, HE DOESN'T HAVE THE TIME. HE HAS LOST HIS WAY IN BALANCING OUT HIS LIFE, AND WHAT HE WANTS, OR, NEEDS TO B HAPPY.

YOU SAY MEN JUST WANT TO FUCK? OF COURSE THEY DO! LOL BY THE TIME THEY R OLDER ALL A MAN REALLY WANTS, IS 3 THINGS. A GREAT BLOW JOB, SO HE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO ANY THING SEXUAL TO PLEASE HER. EAT, AND SLEEP, THEN REPEAT! LOL

OLDER WOMEN R NOT STUPID, THEY HAVE LEARNED BY EXPERIENCE, OR, MISTAKE, AND HAVE FIGURED OUT MEN! OLDER WOMEN, CAN'T B FOOLED ANYMORE BY MEN WHO ONLY WANT SEX. LOL

THEY HAVE PLENTY TO OFFER ANY MAN, REGARDLESS OF AGE. A ZEST FOR LIFE, CURIOSITY OF THE WORLD, EAGER TO TRY NEW THINGS, ETC.. WHAT IS IT YOU THINK A WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO HAVE TO OFFER A MAN? NO MATTER HIS AGE? I THINK U WILL SAY A GREAT BODY, THAT WILL ALSO GROW OLD. BUT, MEN DON'T THINK THAT FAR AHEAD. SO, THEY GET THE TROPHY WIFE WITH THE FAKE TITS, AND WHEN THE NOVELTY WEARS OFF, AND REALITY SET'S IN, THEY REALIZE SHE IS JUST AN EMPTY SHELL LIKE A DOLL THERE IS NO DEPTH, AND HE LOSES INTEREST TO LATE! NOW HE'S STUCK IN A LOVELESS MARRIAGE HE WANTS TO GTFO OF ASAP!

HE REALIZES HIS MISTAKE TO LATE, AND FINDS HIMSELF IN A COURTROOM FIGHTING OVER THE KIDS, THE DOG, THE HOUSE, AND WONDERING HOW HE GOT TO THA POINT THAT EVEN IN DIVORCE, THAT BALL AND CHAIN WILL REMAIN, IN ALIMONY, CHILD SUPPORT, AND IT WILL CRAMP HIS AMBITION TO FIND A NEW WOMAN DUE TO HIS NOW BAGGAGE HE TO WILL CARRY AROUND FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE.

THE SAYING PUTTING THE CART BEFORE THE HORSE. PEOPLE RUSH IN NOT THINKING ABOUT WHAT THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR BEHAVIOR NOW,WILL AFFECT THEM LATER IN LIFE. IT'S NOT WHAT AN OLDER WOMAN HAS TO OFFER AN OLDER MAN. WHAT DOES AN OLDER MAN HAVE TO OFFER AN OLDER WOMAN?

WATCH THE MOVIE ON GOLDEN POND. WHERE AN ELDERLY COUPLE REALIZES ALL THE YEARS THEY STAYED MARRIED, WHAT EACH MEANT TO THE OTHER NEARING THE END OF LIFE, AND WHEY THEY STILL NEED EACH OTHER, AND THAT IT IS LOVE IN THE END THAT TRULY MATTERS, TO BOTH GENDERS.

 

MAYBE I SHOULD JUST CLARIFY MY REMARK... SHE SOUNDS EITHER NAIVE, STUPID, OR, IS TRYING TO "CASH IN", ON AN OLDER MAN CAUSE OF COURSE HE IS NICE, HE WANTS THE YOUNG TROPHY WIFE, OR, JUST USE U FOR SEX, AND PAY U WITH NICE "THINGS". THOUGH YOU WON'T CONSIDER YOURSELF A GOLD DIGGER, THAT'S WHAT U HAVE BECOME. ANY WOMAN, WITH A BRAIN, KNOWS WHY OLDER MEN GO FOR YOUNGER WOMEN. IN SOME RESPECTS THE SAME AS OLDER WOMAN, MAY CONSIDER A YOUNG MAN. BUT, NOT WHAT HE CAN OFFER HER FINANCIALLY, IT'S A BIT DIFFERENT IN GOALS! LOL

 

IN SOME RESPECTS THIS THREAD KIND OF LEADS BOTH MEN, AND WOMEN, BACK TO A GROUND "ZERO". MEANING NEITHER GET'S WHAT THEY WANT. OR, MAYBE THEY BOTH R WILLING TO COMPROMISE ON HOW THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT? IS A MAN WILLING TO LOVE A WOMAN TRULY TO GET WHAT HE WANTS SEXUALLY? IS A WOMAN TRULY WILLING TO GIVE A MAN WHAT HE WANTS SO SHE CAN TRULY HAVE HIS HEART? IS A MAN'S HEART EVER TRULY VULNERABLE TO WANTING TO BE LOVED? THERE IS THE BILLION DOLLAR QUESTION. WE KNOW MEN WANT SEX, BUT, WHEN, AND HOW IF EVER DOES A MAN COME TO THE REALIZATION HE WANTS TO BE LOVED? DO MEN EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS? DOES IT MEAN U WOULD DIE FOR THAT PERSON, THAT HAVING THEM IN YOUR LIFE GIVES YOU FULFILLMENT, IN GETTING YOUR NEEDS MET? WE KNOW FROM HISTORY, MEN HAVE GONE TO GREAT LENGTHS TO PROVE TO A WOMAN, THEY TRULY DO LOVE HER. MONUMENTS HAVE BEEN MADE BY MEN AS A SIGN OF HOW MUCH THEY LOVE THAT ONE WOMAN.

WHAT DOES LOVE LOOK LIKE TO A MAN?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE LOVED TO A MAN?
CAN A MAN EVERY TRULY LOVE A WOMAN, AND IF SO, HOW WOULD THAT WOMAN KNOW? THAT IT'S NOT JUST INSECURITY, OR, LOW SELF ESTEEM, OR, JEALOUSY, THAT HE STAYS WITH HER?
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF A MAN LOVES U, HOW A MAN WOULD SHOW U IN A HEALTHY WAY?

WHAT DOES IT TAKE FOR A MAN AND WOMAN TO WANT TO STAY WITH EACH OTHER SIMPLY OUT OF LOVE FOR EACH OTHER, WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS, OR, OTHER MOTIVATIONS?

IF FOR WESTERN WORLD WOMEN TO NOT NEED A MAN TO SUPPORT HER, THESE DAYS. WHAT DOES HE HAVE TO DO TO GAIN HER LOVE, TO FULFILL HIM? NOT IN A NEEDY WAY, BUT TO FILL THAT LOVE HE TRULY WANTS?

NOW I HAVE HAD MY EYES OPENED BY TALKING TO DIFFERENT MEN HERE OVER THE YEARS. WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO A MAN, AND HOW IS IT HE CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH A STRANGER SIMPLY BY THE WORDS ON A SCREEN?

SURE MEN USED TO WRITE POEMS TO WOO A WOMAN, MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM. WE KNOW THE FAMOUS STORIES IN REGARDS TO POETS.

I'VE HAD MEN SAY THEY LOVE MY SPIRIT, MY HONESTLY, MY DIRECTNESS. THAT I DON'T PLAY GAMES, THAT I AM BLUNT, THAT I AM FORWARD, THAT I KNOW WHAT I WANT! LOL

BUT, I DON'T WANT A MAN WHO HAS ALREADY LOST HIS "LUST", FOR LIFE! WHO GIVES A RAT'S ASS ABOUT FOOTBALL GAMES, MALE DOMINATED SPORTS, THAT SUCKS THE LIFE OUT OF A MAN, TO WHERE HE BECOMES A COUCH POTATO, AND JUST WANTS HIS BEER, A BLOWJOB, AND A WELL COOKED MEAL, TO KEEP A WOMAN AROUND?

OH HELL NO! WHAT IF WOMEN WERE LIKE THAT, WHAT IF ALL THE SHIT U SEE WAS REVERSED? MEN, STAYING HOME TO COOK MEALS, DO LAUNDRY, CLEAN HOUSE, AND FULLFILL WOMEN WITH AN ORGASM USING THEIR DICKS! IMAGINE THE EXPECTATIONS, AND STRESS!

IF YOU EVER HAD A GOLD DIGGER, REMEMBER U AS A MAN CREATED THAT IN WOMEN. YOU HAVE TAUGHT WOMEN, THAT ARE LAZY, TO DO JUST THAT, TO GET AHEAD. YOU TAUGHT THEM THEY NEED FAKE BREASTS, FAKE ASSES, FAKE EVERYTHING TO PLEASE U, SO THEY CAN GAIN ACCESS TO YOUR WALLET! THEY DON'T WANT TO WORK FOR THEMSELVES, THEY WANT THE FAST LANE TO WEALTH, BY GAINING ACCESS TO YOUR FORTUNE! LOL

I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR ANY MAN WHO DOES THIS TO HIMSELF. CAUSE IN THE END HE WILL ONLY HAVE AN EMPTY BED, AND AN EMPTY WALLET! U CREATED A MONSTER, NOT A WOMAN. SHE HAS BEEN TAUGHT HOW TO GET FINANCIAL SECURITY THE EASY WAY. SHE DOESN'T CARE IF SHE MUTILATES HER BODY, AND FORGET'S THAT SHE NEEDS UP KEEP OF ALL THAT FAKENESS EVERY 10 YEARS, WITH THE MONEY TO STILL PAY FOR IT! THOSE FAKE TITS WILL STILL GO SOUTH AND LOSE THEIR PERKINESS ABOUT THE TIME SHE LOSES INTEREST IN YOU, AND NEEDS A NEW SUGAR DADDY TO PAY FOR THE UPKEEP OF THOSE FAKE BODY PARTS, EVERY 10 YEARS.

HERE'S SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT FOR YOU GUYS OUT THERE...

WHAT IF U KEEP HER? THEN SHE DECIDES AFTER LEARNING OF ALL THE DANGERS ASSOCIATED WITH FAKE BODY PARTS IMPLANTED, THAT SHE WANTS IT ALL REMOVED. WOULD U STILL KEEP HER? OR, DUMP HER ASS, AND SEEK A NEW MODEL(MEANING A YOUNGER WOMAN)? DO YOU SIMPLY REPLACE HER, AND GET OUT EASY WITHOUT HAVING TO PAY FOR HER FUTURE UPKEEP IN BODY PART UPGRADES?

OR, DO YOU LEARN IN TME THAT FAKE PARTS DON'T LAST, AND IT'S THE HUMAN BEING THAT MATTERS, NOT THEIR PARTS. AGAIN, I WOULD SAY IT DEPENDS ON THE AGE OF THE MAN, AND HIS INTELLIGENCE LEVEL.

A SMART MAN WITH AGE, SHOULD ALSO BECOME WISER, IF HE HAS AT ALL. SAME FOR WOMEN. I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF, I THINK IT'S HORRIBLE WOMEN NEED TO WEAR MAKE UP AT ALL. MAKE UP ACTUALLY MAKES A WOMAN AGE FASTER. GET HER TO GO WITHOUT MAKE UP WOULD U STILL WANT TO WAKE UP TO THAT FACE?

MEN DON'T HAVE THAT BURDEN, IN FACT IN RESENT TIMES MEN HAVE MADE LOOKING LIKE A SLOB, A NEW FASHION CRAZE? WHO THE FUCK THOUGHT THAT FACIAL STUBBLE WAS SEXY? I DON'T WANT TO KISS A MAN WITH 5'O CLOCK SHADOW EVERY DAY! I HATE FACIAL HAIR ALL TOGETHER! SHAVE IT OFF! DRESS FOR SUCCESS, WEAR A TIGHT PAIR OF JEANS, RATHER THEN JEANS 20 TIMES TO BIG TO HANG AROUND YOUR KNEES!? I DON'T WANT TO SEE HOLES IN JEANS, I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR ASS CRACK WHEN U BEND OVER, EW JUST EW!!!

IF YOU MEET ME I WON'T HAVE MAKE UP ON. I HATE THE STUFF AND IT'S BAD FOR THE SKIN. I DON'T HAVE MUCH IN WRINKLES ON MY FACE, SINCE I STAY OUT OF THE SUN. I HAVE A FEW MAINLY UNDER THE EYES FROM YEARS OF PAIN. BUT, THAT'S ABOUT IT. GRAVITY IS TAKING HOLD, AND YEAH IT WILL HAPPEN IF NOT ALREADY TO U GUYS, TO!

HERE IS THE THING I HAVE LEARNED. I HAVE TO REMIND MYSELF TO LOOK CLOSELY AT MYSELF IN THE MIRROR, AND REALIZE A GREAT GUY CAN HAVE WRINKLES, LOSE A LITTLE HAIR, ETC., BUT STILL BE THE GUY I TRULY WANT. DOES HE GET TO BE FAT? NO! I DON'T CARE IF YOU CAN'T SEE YOUR DICK, I DON'T WANT TO EITHER! LOL

I HAVE A TUMMY, AND YEAH I SHOULDN'T SAY A GUY SHOULDN'T EITHER. I WILL COMPROMISE HE CAN HAVE A SMALL BIT OF TUMMY, BUT NOT B A 500LB SLOB! I CAN'T ASK FOR MORE THEN I MYSELF AM HAVE IN MY APPEARANCE.

MOST OF MINE IS FROM INJURY, OR, ILLNESS. I'VE NOT DONE ANYTHING TO TRY TO DESTROY MY APPEARANCE ON PURPOSE. NATURE HAS SHOWN ME MY BODY IS GETTING OLDER, AND I AM NOT 24 ANYMORE! I CAN'T EXPECT A GUY TO STAY 24 HIMSELF FOR THE REST OF(MY), LIFE.

MOTHER NATURE IS TRULY WISE, SHE GIVES US GOOD LOOKS IN OUR YOUTH IF WE R LUCKY TO USE TO REPRODUCE, FOUND A SPOUSE TO HAVE A FAMILY WITH, AS NATURE INTENDED.

BUT, WHAT IF THAT'S NOT OUR GOAL? WHAT IF WE LIKE BEING SINGLE? WHAT IF WE DON'T WANT A FAMILY? WHAT IF WE DON'T WANT TO BE TRAPPED IN A LOVELESS MARRIAGE FOR WHAT? THE MIDDLE CLASS LIFE STYLE? THE HOUSE WITH THE 2.5 KIDS, AND THE HALF ACRE OF LAWN AND SIT DOWN MOWER? THE BBQ WEEKENDS WITH NEIGHBORS, OR, FRIENDS WITH THE EMPTY BEER CAN'S TO TOSS OUT AT THE END OF THE PARTY, AND FEELING LIKE IS THAT ALL THERE IS TO LIFE?

SOME OF US WANT THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED, WE DON'T WANT TO BE PINNED DOWN BY STEREOTYPES, OR, TOLD THIS IS HOW U MUST BEHAVE PER YOUR GENDER STEREOTYPE. SOME OF US WANT TO LIVE BY BLAZING NEW TRAILS, THE ROADS LESS TRAVELED. SOMETHING NON TRADITIONAL, DIFFERENT, UNIQUE!

WHERE WOULD U FIND SOMEONE LIKE MINDED? THE ONE THING I KNOW IS, OF ALL THE YEARS I'VE LIVED, THAT IF YOU WANT A MONOGOMUS PARTNER, YOU HAVE THE BEST CHANCE TO SUCCEED BY CHOOSING SOMEONE LIKE MINDED. SOMEONE U CAN CALL YOUR BEST FRIEND. AFTER ALL WE KEEP OUR BEST FRIENDS THE LONGEST OVER OUT LIFE TIMES. THOUGH THAT "BEST FRIEND", MAY CHANGE, DUE TO SITUATIONS, MOVING, ETC.. SOMETIMES EVEN OUR PLANS FOR OUR LIVES CAN CHANGE, NOTHING IS SET IN STONE.

I CAN ONLY MAKE CONCLUSIONS BY MY OWN LIFE EXPERIENCES. I KNOW WHAT I WOULD LIKE, I JUST CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET THERE FROM HERE! LOL BUT, I DO TRY, THE BEST WAY I KNOW HOW. IF I FAIL, I DUST MYSELF OFF, AND MOVE ONTO THE NEXT PERSON, I MAY FANCY. LOL NOTHING IS SET IN STONE! LOL

 

I like my age and older I am 55 let me know

 

WHY ARE WE YELLING?!!!!!

 

I'm scared of someone who types in all caps hahahaha