I'm breaking the law daily with a police man, by climbing over a fence into a closed running track, there's 5 of us now but we are keeping social distancing lol.
Funny thing...I use giving massages as a destressing tool for myself. Something about sitting on top of them, massaging a back, the rhythm, the exertion, and the possibility of it leading to more is actually very soothing to me. It by no means has to lead to anything more, just the act of giving a massage is centering and peaceful to me, especially if it's for someone I care about.