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Ladies, do you mind asking your partner to do specific things to you/with you during sex? Why or why not?
Initially it was weird but tbh it's a very important part of my sex life. I dont think I'd get the same satisfaction if I wasnt communicating what I wanted and didn't want. I think he deserves to know how I feel about what he's doing too. Hell, I want to know too if he likes or doesn't like something.
 
Ladies, do you mind asking your partner to do specific things to you/with you during sex? Why or why not?

Men (or any human) are not mind readers. They do not know what I like, and they may continue things thinking I like said thing but don't actually. I communicate my problems to my partners and hope they do the same with me.
 
Ladies, do you mind asking your partner to do specific things to you/with you during sex? Why or why not?

I wouldn't say 'I mind' - It's not how it presents itself in my head. It's just hard for me to ask for things. It's certainly not him, and definitely me. I can talk about sex (as a subject) and be a master at innuendos (written or verbal), but when it comes to sex as the act, it is difficult for me to express what I want.
 
Ladies, do you mind asking your partner to do specific things to you/with you during sex? Why or why not?
I know I've already commented on this lol but lol :) ...I've never had to tell my partners what I like them to do ...and they have not told me either. I found that if I like it I let them know right on the spot lol :) ...I've also found that the partners I've been with have no problem telling me what they "Fantasize " but also that they really don't know what to do when it happens lol :) And I for one don't want to spend time talking about it. If I like it I'll let you know or move ya lol )
 
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