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PoliteandNaughty said:
Ladies, what's something not overtly sexual which turns you on?
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Integrity. That manifests itself into further characteristics and behaviors:

1. Respect for all people of all stations. A person (male or female) who considers themselves above somebody else because of their lower social status / economic situation / connections / job title, etc. is not someone worth being around. The snide comments, haughty attitude, and unpleasant vibes bring negativity into your life. People should be appreciated whatever the life's situation is. We cannot pick our life's circumstances. Some people have a much harder life they are born into. It's not their fault. What is a fault is thinking that the privilege we are born into or create along the way are purely of our own doing.

2. Respect for women. Regardless of what people (typically men) say, what we deal with - sexist comments, objectification, judged and penalized professionally simply because we are women, greater risk and occurrence of physical assault and verbal abuse - is not as present in men's lives.

3. A good heart. Being authentic, helpful, kind, caring of others including strangers. Someone with a good heart and good intentions is a beautiful person to be around. Nobody is perfect, so all of their thoughts and actions will not be. However wanting to make a positive difference in someone else's life, or to a greater scale, in the world - is what lifts everyone up, what makes our lives better.
 
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Ladies, what do you consider to be flirting behavior? Do you think playful flirting can be fun/exciting?
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
Wonder if we can revive this thread...

Ladies, what do you consider to be flirting behavior? Do you think playful flirting can be fun/exciting?
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When there is chemistry between 2 people, I think the flirting just flows. Flirting behavior? I think being attracted to someone, the flirting comes naturally.
So I think it all goes together and it is exciting and fun when you are mutually attracted to someone.
Some people are natural flirts, which can be fun too, I like to flirt, always have but it's the most exciting when you are drawn to someone and there's a mutual attraction there.
 
Peony0375 said:
When there is chemistry between 2 people, I think the flirting just flows. Flirting behavior? I think being attracted to someone, the flirting comes naturally.
So I think it all goes together and it is exciting and fun when you are mutually attracted to someone.
Some people are natural flirts, which can be fun too, I like to flirt, always have but it's the most exciting when you are drawn to someone and there's a mutual attraction there.
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I 100% agree!
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
Wonder if we can revive this thread...

Ladies, what do you consider to be flirting behavior? Do you think playful flirting can be fun/exciting?
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People don't flirt with me irl, and if they do. It's too obvious. I think most flirting is trying to be sexual & I don't do that. On chat though I do get more interesting dms. But I just have no interest in traditionally flirting. It all ends the same.
 
I try to flirt in a playful fun manner, just to let the other person feel special. Flirting isn't always about sex but it is a way to make someone smile or giggle or maybe blush. If it makes the receiptent feel good it is a great flirt :)

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LillyK said:
Ladies,
What is the best thing about being single?
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After being hung up on someone for so long, Id like to believe that these years have taught me more about myself. I can handle things better than before. I’ve learnt to take accountability for my doings. Ive seen my old spark come back. There is no need to take into consideration the other person and there’s that weight off my shoulders in no longer trying to impress them. Although I cant seem to find interest in anyone else, I have found a newfound interest in doing many things by myself. Although there’s days where I miss them and would love to catch them up on everything, I know we both aren’t the same people anymore. Id like to think thats a good thing. The best part about it is that I can enjoy my solitude again and not overthink myself into crazy scenarios. By choice, I can persevere comfortably at my pace. Some of the best days of my life haven’t happened yet.
 
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