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As several threads got deleted (and the previous trainwrecked anyways) let's try a proper restart. I'll even start with an open question to all tbe lovely women around here:

Have you ever pm'ed a man here first (and not just replied) and what "made" you do so?


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Please quote the question you are answering to improve the readability... Plus the person who asked gets a helpful notification!
 
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Slopps said:
Have you ever pm'ed a man here first (and not just replied) and what "made" you do so?
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Yes. You. :p
We have been chatting for a little while the first night i arrived of fcn. And i send you a pm in the morning, i think. ^^

Otherwise, i have pm's a few guys with a specific kink/research around this time (won't say what).
And a few times, just to send compliments. Because i think that men like them too. :)
 
Slopps said:
For some reason I have the feeling this pretty rare but completely true. I am sure they really appreciated (and hope you did not get a meathead answer lol).
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Nope. Just some false hope for them sometimes. I didn't want anything more. :/
I'm an esthete. I can find a man very handsome and even hot. But... that's it. :D

There are no emotions involve. It's like watching a beautiful painting. :)
 
I am mostly pm first even when they see i am a lesbian. Some i ignore others i will respond to respectfully if its a well like reguglar i have seen around alot

But some is from friends (very few) so is ok.

I will if i know the guy long and is friends with him but it will only be to asked if they are ok if i have not talk to them in a while. And normaly its short and to the point and they are so few i can count them on one hand. And only because I know they respect me being lesbian so its safe to send them a pm.
 
Slopps said:
Have you ever pm'ed a man here first (and not just replied) and what "made" you do so?
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Yes, several times. Because I’m not sexist! :P The only ones I’ve initiated conversation with were people I was familiar with from interacting on threads. And it was regarding a specific question or comment within the threads. I don’t think it’s taboo to reach out to a male here. As long as you communicate effectively, people won’t take it to be more than it is.
 
Jamespa44 said:
As a woman on fcn, what are some immediate turn offs from guys on here?
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Men who find that having a cock as their avatar is most representative of them.

Men who have some uncreative or dick-related words as their handle.

Men who are any/all of the following: rude, ignorant, misogynistic, unintelligent, boring, whiny, lacking self confidence, lacking a sense of humor.
 
Slopps said:
Let's try some positivity:rolleyes:

"what do you appreciate especially and specifically from men here?"
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1. Humor, especially the witty, creative, unusual kind. Eccentric even, depending on what/how it is communicated.
2. Intelligence
3. Their ability to communicate concisely their ideas, thoughts or feelings.
4. Uniqueness.
5. Self confidence

But importantly, an overall nice and kind personality. All the above doesn't make a difference if someone's a funny, smart, eloquent, arrogant dick.
 
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