I do leave my nick in the adults room but it's been years since I participated in the chat. I don't even watch it any more. I leave the nick there for the occasional interesting PM that pops up. You cant see the chat in a PM and if I'm not chatting, I'm elsewhere (usually in MS Word writing.) Chat goes 'ding' when a PM arrives so I tab back, chat and when done, back to MS Word till the next one.
Ls x