I would assume the female equivalent would be a 'slut'. Most meatheads would love to be one. Sadly for the male of the species, that's a woman's prerogative.
Totally agree, high quality rope bondage is up there with my all time favourite, corset piercings (I know, niche right!). They are so amazing, see below (yep also just added to the 'things that make you go mmmmmm' thread)