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Anyway to leave threads? Last time I had a misunderstanding on here I was ACTUALLY bullied, and I'd rather not again.
 
Solitary_Scarecrow said:
Anyway to leave threads? Last time I had a misunderstanding on here I was ACTUALLY bullied, and I'd rather not again.
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Don’t leave. Why not make a friend or two. Give people a chance to prove they are not trying to bully you. When you hurt someone, sometimes they lash out, not knowing if you meant to or not. You keep thinking you are being bullied and it can be a self fulfilling prophesy.

Why can’t we just start over and you get to know people a little and joke lightheartedly and see where it goes. I think Tom is a senile man, but I have joked enough with him so he knows I don’t mean that. Lol

Stick around and be genuine. It will be healthy for you and maybe a good experience overall.
 
Kmam1989 said:
Don’t leave. Why not make a friend or two. Give people a chance to prove they are not trying to bully you. When you hurt someone, sometimes they lash out, not knowing if you meant to or not. You keep thinking you are being bullied and it can be a self fulfilling prophesy.

Why can’t we just start over and you get to know people a little and joke lightheartedly and see where it goes. I think Tom is a senile man, but I have joked enough with him so he knows I don’t mean that. Lol

Stick around and be genuine. It will be healthy for you and maybe a good experience overall.
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Appreciate the thought, but I'm not really in a talking mood now.
 
Solitary_Scarecrow said:
Appreciate the thought, but I'm not really in a talking mood now.
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I understand. I am sorry if I contributed to that. Harley is just a good friend and Tom is cool. If you change your mind later, give it a shot. I will be nice to you. Everyone deserves a second chance I think. You are probably just misunderstood? Been there.
 
Kmam1989 said:
I understand. I am sorry if I contributed to that. Harley is just a good friend and Tom is cool. If you change your mind later, give it a shot. I will be nice to you. Everyone deserves a second chance I think. You are probably just misunderstood? Been there.
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No, some people distinctly deserve to suffer when they dont learn from their mistakes... and I am not a child, just going through a lot at the minute. Had an anxiety attack yesterday after realising that no matter how hard I work I am always going to be a fuck up who cant do anything without hurting people in the process... and I work my ass off. So no, some people very distinctly are meant to suffer...

I apologise to any and all I've spoken to, as it seems I went a bit too far... that was wrong, and will not happen again.
 
Solitary_Scarecrow said:
No, some people distinctly deserve to suffer when they dont learn from their mistakes... and I am not a child, just going through a lot at the minute. Had an anxiety attack yesterday after realising that no matter how hard I work I am always going to be a fuck up who cant do anything without hurting people in the process... and I work my ass off. So no, some people very distinctly are meant to suffer...

I apologise to any and all I've spoken to, as it seems I went a bit too far... that was wrong, and will not happen again.
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I know a lot on here and some of what they are going f through. You are not alone. My parents just died of COVID recently. All 3. My adoptive dad and bio and mom.

Many on here are just like you in some ways.

We all just need to be kind to each other. You are likely NOT a fuck up. But we all fuck up at times.

be easy on yourself. Takes pressure off.
 
The character of a person is found in not that they don’t make mistakes, it is found in how they respond when they make mistakes.

i think you responded well in the end.
 
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