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Snap75 said:
If you get a bad feeling about someone here, with no proof or reason to think like that, do you let it be known or keep it to yourself?
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I guess it depent on how intens that feeling is you feel you have. Nothing stop you to atleas in private express your feelings to a good friend you trust to get they opinion.

Also it depent on what you have a bad feeling about.

But yes without proof or any real reason its wise to keep it to yourself in order to avoid drama and or ending up being wrong. If you are right in what you feel it will sooner or later became clear to all or the person will expose him/her self

Thats my humble opinion
 
OnyxStorm said:
Why is is that people must attack others and make indirect comments after others express things on any thread? Some have people fooled to the core and it's sad tbh.
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It’s because their usually insecure or they in real life get treated that way so they come here to release their frustrations on others. It’s not an excuse but some people can’t control their emotions and actions… they need to grow up.
 
SweetLesGirl said:
Have you ever wondered how people here in FCNville determine who is genuine, sincere and real? What criterion is used?

Is it based on ..

How well do you live up to their expectations of you?
How good a people pleaser are you?
How willing are you to expose your whole life story to them?
How well/ willing you are to take part in they online wars?
Or if you are everyone's best friend?
To name a few possible measurments.

Who here can sincerely and with all honesty without any doubt say they are perfect and flawless enough to determine who is genuine, sincere and real?

It's always a sign to me of severe arrogance, pretentiousness and ignorance when people/ we feel they have the right to classify another person's character and put a stamp of approval or disapproval of how genuine, sincere and real people is based on their point of view, opinions and expectations.

Again something I have said so much also often say to myself if something or someone does not appeal to you if it is not your cup of tea or glass of vodka. Be and let be it's really very easy.
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I started reading then got stuck on the word, "criterion". I have never used that word in a spoken or written medium. I now realize that there are times when I should have been using the singular instead of the plural ("criteria").

For someone whose 5,027th language is English, you communicate very well in it!
 
Snap75 said:
If you get a bad feeling about someone here, with no proof or reason to think like that, do you let it be known or keep it to yourself?
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If that person is interacting with an ever-deepening level with a very good friend, I would say something.

If that person is interacting with someone outside of my social circle, I say nothing. Why? Because if people are not close to you, what you say will be perceived as coming from a negative place e.g. jealousy, envy, manipulation, etc.

Like you said, can't save everyone. Not anybody's job to save everyone either. Shit happens to all of us. If that's what is meant to happen to someone, it's meant to.
 
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Thalassa said:
I started reading then got stuck on the word, "criterion". I have never used that word in a spoken or written medium. I now realize that there are times when I should have been using the singular instead of the plural ("criteria").

For someone whose 5,027th language is English, you communicate very well in it!
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Coming from you @Thalassa this is a big complement thank you ❤️
 
I dreamt about someone from fcn (don't try to guess who, you'll get it wrong for sure) and about cake. Their wife made 3 cakes with a lot of frosting. One was made for me. I wasn’t supposed to touch it but I did and messed up the frosting. I tried to fix it so they wouldn't know I'm a greedy little food pig. I was unsuccessful.

In similar news, I made cake today.
 
Thalassa said:
I dreamt about someone from fcn (don't try to guess who, you'll get it wrong for sure) and about cake. Their wife made 3 cakes with a lot of frosting. One was made for me. I wasn’t supposed to touch it but I did and messed up the frosting. I tried to fix it so they wouldn't know I'm a greedy little food pig. I was unsuccessful.

In similar news, I made cake today.
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Oooooooh cake nommy
 
Thalassa said:
I dreamt about someone from fcn (don't try to guess who, you'll get it wrong for sure) and about cake. Their wife made 3 cakes with a lot of frosting. One was made for me. I wasn’t supposed to touch it but I did and messed up the frosting. I tried to fix it so they wouldn't know I'm a greedy little food pig. I was unsuccessful.

In similar news, I made cake today.
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My wife cant bake so its def not me hahahaha now i am hurt deeply how dare you dream about others u-Darling Thal how dare you have another in your food porn dreams !!!!
 
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