I have no idea what you are talking about.....just take a deep breath and enjoy this site for what it is, find topics you enjoy discussing with other members whether funny or serious, go to whatever chat room you enjoy and have fun, if you want to meet or hook up with someone here do that, don't get so hung up on everything being just right here...posts in the wrong categories, whose in what chat room etc. This site is full of very weird, strange, sometimes wonderful people...enjoy it for what it is not what you think it should be. That was a bit deep for me think I better go sit down and recover.