Banter What made you say FUCK! today?

Fuzz_Ball said:
I think that anger is the only acceptable emotion besides happiness sometimes… and anger is the only way to be heard, to be respected, and to have your boundaries respected.
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If you use anger to be heard and respected, you're not gaining control of anything, you're losing it.

Someone tries to use anger to try and control me and I'd lose any respect I had for them.
 
Harley31 said:
If you use anger to be heard and respected, you're not gaining control of anything, you're losing it.

Someone tries to use anger to try and control me and I'd lose any respect I had for them.
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I meant to say it as I channel the emotion assertively not aggressively while expressing my needs without being pushy, threatening, or blaming. Aggression only seeks to punish or control, while assertion seeks to resolve. Knowing your boundaries is one way I use assertiveness in daily life. It might come off sounding like a dick sometimes, but if I don’t like something or it upsets me I pretty much will tell you straight up how I feel about it like you just did me ;) Remind me never to make you mad :)

Work for me is a prime example and I feel I am not smart enough to handle all the dumbasses I deal with on a daily bases -_- So I get assertive when they get aggressive and make them leave… daily life carries on, cycle continues. Really I am the point where I wanna send parts flying at people, but I don’t because I might not stop XD That’s aggressive isn’t it?
 
The fact that the pain in my Bladder is at a 6 right now and theres nothing i can do but wait it out because im not where i normally live right now so therefor i dont have my health card with me and need a new FKN ONE so i can get the meds i need but it will take two or more weeks to get it in the mail . And thats not all . I feel very Limited . Having a Disability where i cant drive and such and im broke right now except for $40 and thats gotta be for my trip back home and i miss my best friend and i could go on and on and ON AND ON AND ON but nothings gunna cure my disability nothings going to Cure my Disease Nothings going to Cure anything that i have BEGGED and PLEADED with GOD TO FIX IT im Even losing my faith , 😡 SO FUCK ALL THIS BULLSHIT AND THATS WHAT MADE ME SAY FUCK TODAY!!!
 
Fuzz_Ball said:
I meant to say it as I channel the emotion assertively not aggressively while expressing my needs without being pushy, threatening, or blaming. Aggression only seeks to punish or control, while assertion seeks to resolve. Knowing your boundaries is one way I use assertiveness in daily life. It might come off sounding like a dick sometimes, but if I don’t like something or it upsets me I pretty much will tell you straight up how I feel about it like you just did me ;) Remind me never to make you mad :)

Work for me is a prime example and I feel I am not smart enough to handle all the dumbasses I deal with on a daily bases -_- So I get assertive when they get aggressive and make them leave… daily life carries on, cycle continues. Really I am the point where I wanna send parts flying at people, but I don’t because I might not stop XD That’s aggressive isn’t it?
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Thats completely different from saying you need to be angry to be heard and respected. This I understand. If you straight up tell me how you feel, we'll get along just fine lol
 
Waking up and doing mental math as to how long until the alarm will actually go off. Hate waking before the alarm...several times a night
 
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