"Rule number one of cat club", you NEVER force a cat ... unless you have a death wish!
I love how if you come at them too enthusiastic they give you that "fuck off human" side eye and 'tude as if to say "I've SHAT better than you!" yet how they seem to sense the "I'm not a cat person" amongst a group and target them relentlessly!
Cats are mostly such sassy, fiesty, wild souls!! They can be sweet too ... WHEN they want to!!