Recent content by GEternus

Thank you for your kind words and compassion. Short of you connecting me with a nice woman (age 48 to 60) in the Portland area, your response and sensitivity are all I could have wanted. Thank you.

Thank you for your response. OK, I guess it is a given that in both scenarios it is cheating. That said, it seems to me to be more justified in one case versus the other. In the case of the serial cheater, while I personally don't identify with the hopping from bed to bed with the frequency of...

I apologize, but I think you misunderstood. The scenario is...you are married, your spouse decides to stop having sex with you, and you go have sex with another person. Is that cheating?

I couldn't agree with your summation more. The first 6 months to 1 year is the BEST. It is after that point that the facade begins to fall away. I encourage you to stay your course, live your life as you see fit and experience as much as you can. I understand your position on married men...

I applaud your desire to retain your single status. From the stand point of someone 25+ years into a marriage, it seems the more sensible road. As a woman, if you did marry and were in a similar situation, would you seek out a new lover? Would you consider it cheating if your needs were not...

I agree that it has to do with approach. When confronted with a similar situation, I offered to "help" shave it. To ease her worries about itching when it grows back, I offered to leave her a small "landing strip." She enjoyed the attention, I enjoyed the view and mostly I enjoyed the freshly...

Wonderful and picturesque posting....I can't imagine you spend many nights alone. Bravo!

I love when my beard is soaked after a good 69 session. I am orally fixated and giving is as important as getting in my head. BTW, anyone else into ANR/ABF?

Thank you! I love women with spunk....most of them would turn around and smack me back, so I don't slap asses or pull hair. It just seems unfriendly somehow.....maybe I am from a different generation?

Ok, I want to hear from some ladies......Please enlighten us men as to your opinions on this subject.

LOL Yes, very true. Too many laws, too little justice!

The irony is that courts of law don't see it that way. I'm just wondering how many men have dealt with this and how they handled the situation.

Is it cheating if your wife/husband just stops having sex? I mean at some point, you have to make a call. The longer you are married, the harder it is to divorce. Kids, finances, houses, retirement, etc. This being the case....Should a spouse expect sexual loyalty and for the other to go...