Maybe you should instead consider discreetly trying to find a regular bi bud through your gym or college instead of a random hook-up. Of course, that also means taking some positive risks, like going out of your way to get to know select guys. You kinda be like a detective and figure out who’s sexually open-minded and possibly sending vibes your way. But given your circumstances, it should prove to be all the more discreet and rewarding for you in the long run.
