Are you a giver or a taker

Boring52

Boring52

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I'm personally a giver. The times I take a stand and ask for something leaves me feeling guilty. I do not get run over to much though and it makes me happy. Being happy is what counts.
 
I am a giver....I put everyone ahead of myself... I don't know how to take....to take a compliment...t
 
I try to be neither:

Giver = people will depend on you in the future, and might turn hostile/aggressive if you don't give down the line
Taker = you are subservient to the Giver and this is not an ideal state to be in, especially if the Giver has power/control/influence

Giving and Taking a little and occasionally is fine, but I would not like to make a habit
 
I think, really I am a 'taker', because although it must seem that I 'give' myself it is really what I want - to be 'taken' - and so it is in fact a selfish act. Of course if the other takes joy in taking me, that is a win-win situation: but for more n ho desired to be 'taken' - or indeed so my to share in mutual romantic sex - it would be frustrating. Luckily I don't think I have engaged in sex with such men in real life, though I am ashamed to admit I have on line and have sometimes lost interest.
 
I am a giver.. if she ain't getting off it ain't doing nothing for me.. if I don't get off I can in a few mins with my own hand so...
 
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