Either I don't have that many friends or I got really good ones. I have never had to come across that issue. Had a couple family members asked for too much though, and I outright told them no.
My personality no. I am who I am. I have strong values, funny, and kind hearted. My friends know who I am. The only people in my life that I respected and loved enough for me to worry about how they thought of me have passed. My physical feature is on the other hand... i'm not worried. I'm just upset with myself. Working on it though.
Are you good at your current role in what you do for a living?