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[SweetLesGirl]

Except for two other people here at FCN, I think you're the most knowledgeable person on the whole topic of D / s, it's always a joy to read your informative contribution to serious topics. Especially when one considers the daily "wannabe" Dominant and sub of FCN people dont realize what this is really about and great mental damage is done by abusers and wannabes. Many people who are mentally ill in a weak spot fall for it and are abused and played with by abusers not a real Dominate. Thank you for your always informative input.

Just to add by saying I only know two others who know about this means i know about them but I am sure there is others who also really knows what it is about.

 

[Kheldar_TO]

Interesting... , so my two pennies worth (I'd have said cents, but I'm British )

I tend to agree around a lot of the points about the observed negativity side of things and the misunderstandings around the whole area, and imo words like manipulation reflect that negativity - again imo, that's not a healthy dynamic.

A lot of the dynamic is about head-space, mental attitudes and 'being in the moment', and if I had to pick two words, and they're applicable to any healthy relationship, they're "trust" & "communication". Personally I think theyre even more important in D/s relationship.

 

[SweetLesGirl]

Interesting... , so my two pennies worth (I'd have said cents, but I'm British )

I tend to agree around a lot of the points about the observed negativity side of things and the misunderstandings around the whole area, and imo words like manipulation reflect that negativity - again imo, that's not a healthy dynamic.

A lot of the dynamic is about head-space, mental attitudes and 'being in the moment', and if I had to pick two words, and they're applicable to any healthy relationship, they're "trust" & "communication". Personally I think theyre even more important in D/s relationship.

I agree with you