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[Shivorah]

Hope you felt satisfied in the end

I was satisfied enough, insofar as it was possible for my young, horny self to be satisfied.

I feels jealous of you @Shivorah ..I always gets curious about gangbang and 3somes. Never dared to fulfill any such desires.

Group sex can be incredibly cathartic in that you just get to let loose without feeling wrong - that's the main appeal of it to me, at least. Word of advice though: always set ground rules, make sure you can trust the participants, and never go into one without an ample stock of condoms.

Actually organising a gangbang can be a bear of a task, though. In Europe and to a lesser degree America, swingers' groups and parties abound (I've been to a couple organised by prominent porn actresses), though expect to find these only in bigger cities. I can't account for India, but generally speaking, if you know where to look for something, you'll find it.

It's much easier to assemble a threesome - look through (or put out) personal ads, or ask a couple of friends if they're interested. If you have a partner, it's even easier: you only need to fish up one extra friend. That being said, I would advise talking to your SO beforehand.

Hopefully all of that helps!

 

[AnExoticIndian]

I was satisfied enough, insofar as it was possible for my young, horny self to be satisfied.

Group sex can be incredibly cathartic in that you just get to let loose without feeling wrong - that's the main appeal of it to me, at least. Word of advice though: always set ground rules, make sure you can trust the participants, and never go into one without an ample stock of condoms.

Actually organising a gangbang can be a bear of a task, though. In Europe and to a lesser degree America, swingers' groups and parties abound (I've been to a couple organised by prominent porn actresses), though expect to find these only in bigger cities. I can't account for India, but generally speaking, if you know where to look for something, you'll find it.

It's much easier to assemble a threesome - look through (or put out) personal ads, or ask a couple of friends if they're interested. If you have a partner, it's even easier: you only need to fish up one extra friend. That being said, I would advise talking to your SO beforehand.

Hopefully all of that helps!

That's really a nice advice. Well I am in Europe since few months and will be here for few months.
May be after your motivation and advice things gets possible... atleast a 3some.

 

[KindAlpha]

I would think there is probably a place where you can go and anonymously just offer yourself to the club with a mask on or the like.

 

[AnExoticIndian]

I would think there is probably a place where you can go and anonymously just offer yourself to the club with a mask on or the like.

May be ..
Can be discuss further on it in personal conversation?
I sent

 

[LillyK]

Do you ever find yourself frustrated with the overconfident and underperforming?? I have once again given up on sex *crossing fingers* because my unquenchable sex appetite left me always wanting more of what is so incredibly hard to find. I am also gearing up to start a new career and want to place most of my energy on that and raising my boys.

My last sex binge was only a few months long and I slept with more people than the last time which was much much longer. But it's lonely and frustrating when others can't match my drive and ability to keep going. Just the thought of only having one orgasm is ridiculous to me and I'm willing to wait a bit for them to recharge but it seems to be the norm. I tend to shy away from group sex because the one sex party I went to, most weren't wearing condoms which goes against my policy. I fear the future because I have this ridiculously high sex drive and will never be a vanilla sex girl.

Also, thank you for this thread because I can so relate

 

[KindAlpha]

Is this because they wont put in the work to give you multiples? My woman has to have two to three and they have to be different stimuli. Clitoral, clit and anal plug and then big toys and then I finish her off the usual way with deep thrusting. Its more work but she then doesnt need anything for a while.

Its like a wave of urge will hit her

 

[Shivorah]

Do you ever find yourself frustrated with the overconfident and underperforming?? I have once again given up on sex *crossing fingers* because my unquenchable sex appetite left me always wanting more of what is so incredibly hard to find. I am also gearing up to start a new career and want to place most of my energy on that and raising my boys.

My last sex binge was only a few months long and I slept with more people than the last time which was much much longer. But it's lonely and frustrating when others can't match my drive and ability to keep going. Just the thought of only having one orgasm is ridiculous to me and I'm willing to wait a bit for them to recharge but it seems to be the norm. I tend to shy away from group sex because the one sex party I went to, most weren't wearing condoms which goes against my policy. I fear the future because I have this ridiculously high sex drive and will never be a vanilla sex girl.

Also, thank you for this thread because I can so relate

Such frustrations are exactly why it's so difficult for me to maintain relationships on the physical side - a partner who can't keep up bores me. I try not to hold it against them (mainly because my libido is outrageously high by pretty much any standard), but it can be a real mood-killer if they realise they're underperforming, and putting them through that isn't fair on them. Other issues, KindAlpha has already addressed in the post just above.

Many of the strategies I've devised along with my therapist include finding ways to keep your mind preoccupied at all times so that, at the very least, constantly thinking about sex is less bothersome than it otherwise would be. Another strategy I've shared with someone else recently on this site is giving yourself "blowouts". These are single sessions, usually held once a month, where you go absolutely hog-wild in indulging your sins to the biggest possible extent. Then you can go the rest of your time functioning like a normal human being. If you get the urge again beforehand, you can remind yourself to wait and that your next blowout will be just around the corner. You do, however, have to be very strict with yourself. But the fact you have sons tells me you can easily pull this off: just remind yourself that you're doing it for them. Having a fruitful career up and running also helps dramatically with keeping yourself busy.

As far as sex parties go, try to only attend professionally organised parties. The pros are super strict when it comes to enforcing use of protection, and some even go as far as to demand a recent, clean STD check. If you're going to do an amateur one, make damn sure you know and trust everybody there.

 

[LillyK]

Such frustrations are exactly why it's so difficult for me to maintain relationships on the physical side - a partner who can't keep up bores me. I try not to hold it against them (mainly because my libido is outrageously high by pretty much any standard), but it can be a real mood-killer if they realise they're underperforming, and putting them through that isn't fair on them. Other issues, KindAlpha has already addressed in the post just above.

Many of the strategies I've devised along with my therapist include finding ways to keep your mind preoccupied at all times so that, at the very least, constantly thinking about sex is less bothersome than it otherwise would be. Another strategy I've shared with someone else recently on this site is giving yourself "blowouts". These are single sessions, usually held once a month, where you go absolutely hog-wild in indulging your sins to the biggest possible extent. Then you can go the rest of your time functioning like a normal human being. If you get the urge again beforehand, you can remind yourself to wait and that your next blowout will be just around the corner. You do, however, have to be very strict with yourself. But the fact you have sons tells me you can easily pull this off: just remind yourself that you're doing it for them. Having a fruitful career up and running also helps dramatically with keeping yourself busy.

As far as sex parties go, try to only attend professionally organised parties. The pros are super strict when it comes to enforcing use of protection, and some even go as far as to demand a recent, clean STD check. If you're going to do an amateur one, make damn sure you know and trust everybody there.

Having kids doesn't make it easy lmao although mine are older now. It's the career that is helping but it hasn't been easy by any means And yes, the more you have something to focus on helps me! I had a sponsor once explain it this way: when the rain falls hard there are grooves in the land where the rain gathers more than other places. The more it rains, the deeper the groove become. This makes it impossible to keep the rain out of those areas unless you relevel the ground so as to even things out. In the same way I relevel and balance my life by creating entirely new habits so I don't have time to create mischief! When I'm at my worst I completely neglect my kids as well as basic responsibilities.

 

[Shivorah]

Having kids doesn't make it easy lmao although mine are older now. It's the career that is helping but it hasn't been easy by any means And yes, the more you have something to focus on helps me! I had a sponsor once explain it this way: when the rain falls hard there are grooves in the land where the rain gathers more than other places. The more it rains, the deeper the groove become. This makes it impossible to keep the rain out of those areas unless you relevel the ground so as to even things out. In the same way I relevel and balance my life by creating entirely new habits so I don't have time to create mischief! When I'm at my worst I completely neglect my kids as well as basic responsibilities.

Your sponsor's a smart person. Listen to them more.

I'd say I've been there, but I don't have kids (nor do I plan on having any), so I can only vouch for a career's effectiveness in keeping yourself busy. From the sounds of it, you're definitely on the right track. Stay your course and you'll do fine.

 

[LillyK]

Your sponsor's a smart person. Listen to them more.

I'd say I've been there, but I don't have kids (nor do I plan on having any), so I can only vouch for a career's effectiveness in keeping yourself busy. From the sounds of it, you're definitely on the right track. Stay your course and you'll do fine.

I fired her last week lmao but I'm take the wisdom with me

Different things work for each person and you seem really self aware.

 

[Shivorah]

I fired her last week lmao but I'm take the wisdom with me

Different things work for each person and you seem really self aware.

In my wild life, I have to be self-aware, and necessity always begets innovation. I don't even want to know where I'd be if I wasn't - all I know is I'd be a train wreck. XD

 

[Shivorah]

[casually whistles while making effort to revive dead AMA]

 

[Someguy1323]

Off subject but last I talked to Lilly, she was doing really well still...I will give her a call again soon and check in because I've been thinking about her lately.

On subject...
Any addiction has consequences, what have you lost because of your addiction? Have you ever hit a bottom? what was it? if not, what do you fear it will be?

 

[Shivorah]

Off subject but last I talked to Lilly, she was doing really well still...I will give her a call again soon and check in because I've been thinking about her lately.

Good to hear she's been doing great. Hopefully it stays that way!

On subject...
Any addiction has consequences, what have you lost because of your addiction? Have you ever hit a bottom? what was it? if not, what do you fear it will be?

I've had quite a few lows in my life that have been a direct consequence of nymphomania. Among those I've alluded to on this site are having my nudes spread across the net by malactors, financial troubles caused by the amount of money I spent on accessories and toys, and catching enough STIs to know the staff of my sexual health clinic on a first-name basis.

But the absolute rock bottom I've hit was the last time I tried a relationship, with a childhood friend, a few years ago. We actually had a good thing going for a few months. But the urges struck, and my idiotic self brushed aside the consequences. That went downhill very rapidly when he found out the "consequence" wasn't his, leading to a lot of people cutting me off, and a lot of surgery after an alcohol-fuelled jolly with a coat-hanger went horribly wrong.

This was the incident that finally led me to put what little of my support network I still had to good use, among which was a therapist. I've since become a much more functional human who can keep her libido under (better) control.