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Slopps said:
I have mixed feelings about it. If she enjoys it, if I can see her desire as she plays with them, why not. But I won't ask for it or put on the list of things I like most. Though I would say a solid cupping or a little queeze during a bj is very pleasurable. But as "part of" the bj.

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The other day I read somewhere a member stated liking "having the power/control" over her guy during a bj. If she holds them in her hands, that's even more true I guess. Which feels nice for us too ;)


Not really. I don't like the tickling. Plus I have a hairy chest. It's not sexy when she has to stop to spit out a hair:eek:
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LOLOl ah the dreaded curly floss lol :)
 
Someguy1323 said:
I don't see them as off limits at all, love having them touched no matter when...heck, if I'm fucking and they are accessable to hands, mouth, whatever, go for it.



Again, I'm all for it, ticklish but I love having them touched etc....but prepare for some hair floss if you put em in your mouth, unless you wax/shave me first.
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Slopps said:
I have mixed feelings about it. If she enjoys it, if I can see her desire as she plays with them, why not. But I won't ask for it or put on the list of things I like most. Though I would say a solid cupping or a little queeze during a bj is very pleasurable. But as "part of" the bj.

Edit:
The other day I read somewhere a member stated liking "having the power/control" over her guy during a bj. If she holds them in her hands, that's even more true I guess. Which feels nice for us too ;)


Not really. I don't like the tickling. Plus I have a hairy chest. It's not sexy when she has to stop to spit out a hair:eek:
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Hairy nips deserve love too <3
 
Thalassa said:
What turns you on most when you are on fcn?

Does that "turning on" lead you to do something - masturbate online/offline? Express it with your RL significant other? Left to simmer?
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Bit late answering this one, but here goes. I'm not turned on per se by coming on FCN. There are some exquisite, beautiful, sexy, and fabulous pictures posted by many magnificent ladies that I fully enjoy looking at. Can looking at certain poses make me aroused? Certainly at times, but I'm not here to always look at pictures.

Reading well worded posts about what turns women on definitely get my mind going. These posts can form amazing images in my head and certainly can give me ideas for things to consider in real life.

Now if I happen to be go back and forth with someone who is well worded and understands the true power of words, I certainly can get turned on. In my opinion the power of words and the mental image words can form in certain situations is underrated by not only most people here, but by people in general. So the rare times I can share that with someone here, sure, it can turn me on.
 
Thalassa said:
How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being a certain version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?
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Another one I'm late on! In general I am the same person on FCN as I am when I am not online. My mannerisms are pretty much the same, the way I act is fairly the same, and the way I write is almost exactly the same. Overall I would like to think (and I hope) the personality I display here is quite similar to the way I am in real life.

Sexually I am somewhat different here than in real life. For me it is a lot easier to share sexual thoughts here. There is hardly anyone in real life I can share my turn ons, kinks, fantasies, and such with. Here I feel a bit more free to express myself. Sure there are some people here who judge you for what you like sexually, but for the most part I've found the community fairly accepting and even encouraging when I have shared.
 
Have you ever been with a woman who needed reminding or reassurances about her looks / body? It can be a need anywhere from a mild to a significant.

What did you think about that situation?
What did you do?
Would you tell the truth?
Or tell her what she wanted to hear?
 
Thalassa said:
Have you ever been with a woman who needed reminding or reassurances about her looks / body? It can be a need anywhere from a mild to a significant.
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I've been with one woman who needed some reassurances about her looks. It was not an everyday thing with her. I would classify it as more sporadic. Sometimes she would go a few weeks without asking me how she looked, did I like her body, does this skirt show too much of my leg, is this top too revealing, etc. Other times it would be almost an every day thing she asked me about.

Thalassa said:
What did you think about that situation?
What did you do?
Would you tell the truth?
Or tell her what she wanted to hear?
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I did not find it concerning she asked me how she looked in certain outfits. Kind of figured if she is asking me what I think about certain tops, skirts, and dresses she wears she valued my opinion.

When she first started asking me how she looked in outfits I told her what , no it's not too revealing, your ass looks magnificent in that red dress. I thought yeah, tell her what she wants to hear, otherwise she won't talk to you for a while. Over time my thought process changed. I believe it was because I got to know her better and understand why she was asking how she looked when she wore certain outfits. She really did want my feedback and thoughts. After understanding what she wanted and I told her the truth. For example if I thought she was wearing a top which showed too much cleavage, I would tell her. She always was receptive of my thoughts, but she didn't always change. I respected her decision and what she chose to ultimately wear.

Now onto her asking me if I liked her body. The first few times when she asked me if I liked her body I was sort of surprised. My internal dialogue was thinking if I didn't like your body at all I wouldn't be with you. Unfortunately, words similar to those we my response to her the first time she asked me that. As expected it as not a wise answer by me. We kind of brushed it off the first time she asked, but when she asked again I told her absolutely, I love your body.

Reflecting back on the time with her I believe she just wanted to know she was desired with actions and words. Maybe there were just certain times she needed to hear those words from me. I'll admit it's nice to hear a woman say they like my body, so nothing wrong with giving reassurance if it is needed from time to time.
 
Nips said:
Do you enjoy your nipples being played with during sex/foreplay?

edit: played with = teased/licked/sucked
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I do enjoy having my nipples played with during sex/foreplay at times. My preference is for my nipple to be sucked. It causes quite a wonderful sensation which travels straight down to my groin and causes me to emit a mix of a moan/groan. If I'm getting my nipple sucked and the magnificent lady is doing something else with my body (can be a wide range of things), then I'm likely going to be wiggling and/or squirming.

I'm not huge on having my nipples touched because I'm so damn ticklish. Certainly don't mind it occasionally, just not my one of my preferences.
 
Why would a guy unblock a woman a few months after a ‘break-up’ on WhatsApp and then not text?!? WhatsApp is like Kik. Answers on a postcard please!
 
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Curvy said:
Why would a guy unblock a woman a few months after a ‘break-up’ on WhatsApp and then not text?!? WhatsApp is like Kik. Answers on a postcard please!
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I'll do my best to answer... I'm not entirely sure why a guy would unblock you and then not text you after 'breaking up'. Possibly it could be due to him feeling bad about unblocking you in the first place. Maybe his way of saying I'm sorry for blocking you in the first place is to unblock you. Not saying I agree with it or understand it if that is the reason, just offering a possible perspective.

Additionally he could be unblocking you to make you notice him. Perhaps subliminally he thinks if I unblock her, she will reach out to me. Again not saying I agree with this if it is the reason, just throwing it out there.

Also maybe he just unblocked you by mistake.

Hopefully that helped a bit.
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
I'll do my best to answer... I'm not entirely sure why a guy would unblock you and then not text you after 'breaking up'. Possibly it could be due to him feeling bad about unblocking you in the first place. Maybe his way of saying I'm sorry for blocking you in the first place is to unblock you. Not saying I agree with it or understand it if that is the reason, just offering a possible perspective.

Additionally he could be unblocking you to make you notice him. Perhaps subliminally he thinks if I unblock her, she will reach out to me. Again not saying I agree with this if it is the reason, just throwing it out there.

Also maybe he just unblocked you by mistake.

Hopefully that helped a bit.
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Thank you. He wanted me to notice him.
 
Curvy said:
What would turn you off a woman’s body in bed?
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Good question... personally if I am to the point where I am 'in bed' with a woman, there is nothing about her body which would turn me off. Given we are in bed and headed to sex, the desire of her body along with the mental connection with her has already been established.

Now could she possibly do something while in bed which would turn me off, absolutely. There are a few actions or words a woman could say which would be a total turn off. I don't think that is what you are asking, but if you are I would be more than glad to expand on what would specifically turn me off while in bed with a woman.
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
Good question... personally if I am to the point where I am 'in bed' with a woman, there is nothing about her body which would turn me off. Given we are in bed and headed to sex, the desire of her body along with the mental connection with her has already been established.

Now could she possibly do something while in bed which would turn me off, absolutely. There are a few actions or words a woman could say which would be a total turn off. I don't think that is what you are asking, but if you are I would be more than glad to expand on what would specifically turn me off while in bed with a woman.
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Thank you...I ask that question because there was this guy who told me after sex that he only liked my breasts, which I found very rude and shocking. But I now know he is an emotional abuser and yes the emotional connection is very important but not to a man like that.
 
Do you watch porn together with the person you are with?

How do you start doing that? (i.e. do you ask? Do you just turn in on while they are with you?)

What kinds of reactions have you gotten from her?
 
Thalassa said:
Do you watch porn together with the person you are with?

How do you start doing that? (i.e. do you ask? Do you just turn in on while they are with you?)

What kinds of reactions have you gotten from her?
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I used to enjoy watching porn with my husband in the early days, except he was ready to go after a few scenes and I would be like, no I want to see how this film ends! Lol
 
Curvy said:
I used to enjoy watching porn with my husband in the early days, except he was ready to go after a few scenes and I would be like, no I want to see how this film ends! Lol
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Thank you for replying, even though it was in the "Ask a Man" section. I was considering posting it on the Woman's thread so I really appreciate that you answered anyway :)
 
Thalassa said:
Thank you for replying, even though it was in the "Ask a Man" section. I was considering posting it on the Woman's thread so I really appreciate that you answered anyway :)
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Thanks. It was too good a question not to answer!
 
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