lol the guys always get to answer to good q's lol
I almost always need a tall glass of water after intense sex. So after drinking the water, I lay next to her. I love playing with her hair after sex. As my breathing slowly returns to normal, my hands will start to roam over her body. Starting at her chest, moving down to her stomach, and then her inner thighs. Maybe some light ass groping as well.
Sometimes I'll kiss her neck, then softly kiss her lips. If the kiss turns more passionate and we are both up for it again (yes given an appropriate time for me to recover ha!), then another hot intense sex session will happen!
Other times I will just pass out next to her after sex! I don't do this often, but hey, it does happen.
Good answer!
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UnsaintedCali
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I just like taking everything in. The way here thighs feel against my cheeks. The way her wrists feel in my hands. The way her body moves as a result of mine. The way she tastes and how she feels against my tongue. Then I wonder how she'd feel with an ass smack...or how her nails would feel against my chest...I also wonder if any part of her wants to assume control. As much as I like controlling...releasing some of that control with trust is sexy af...
Oh, and as stated previously..."DON'T CUM DON'T CUM DON'T CUM....FUCK...."
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UnsaintedCali
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From what I've seen, the guys mentioning it not being an issue are the Long Schlong Silvers. Lol.
From the perspective of a not big dong guy, I think there are more factors to it than just porn. I learned early on that porn stars are not the expectations of most people.
That being said, the grey sweatpants craze, yeah, I can't do that lol. You won't see anything but my fat pad, which tbh, is what I'm more insecure about. Now, I've only been with three women sexually and all three have mentioned my girth and needing me to start slow. I always thought they were being kind but none of them have met one another so, no conspiracy there. I think what made me feel better about it is just trusting the word of the women I've been with. I have what I have. As mentioned though, that fat pad isn't doing me any favors, and my weight makes me more self conscious than dick size.
I will say though, that dick insecurity early on helped me get sooooooo much better with my fingers and my tongue. I always thought, "well ,if my dick doesn't do it for them, I'll make them feel it elsewhere."
Tl;dr - I used to worry about dick size, but then I grew up. <3
A very good question. I think it has to do with most males first exposure to the sexual world.... Watching porn. Nearly all the penises you see in porn are rather large. Most men aren't going to measure up to that. So perhaps that has a lot to do with it.
Yes, based on my above answer. Most men aren't going to see other penises except their own unless they are watching porn. As a few have answered already, most porn is going to show extraordinarily large cocks. If guys at a young age get the impression that is the "normal" for cock size, then they will likely feel inferior.
I've never felt very insecure about my own size. Maybe I was a little when I was much younger. Primarily what got me to accept and be happy with my size is researching what the average penis size is. After doing this and finding out porn was the exception rather than the norm, I stopped fretting about it. Also getting compliments in bed has helped. I'm not an egotistical person, but any guy who says he doesn't enjoy getting complimented during or after sex is lying his ass off.
Enjoy it for however long I can....and then clean up....and then cuddle/start over. I don't want it to end, if I can stay in and keep going, I will. If I can't, I'll pull out, and we can clean up, ya know I'll throw some paper towels or something at her, and get myself a nice warm washcloth. Then, I'll lie next to her, holding, touching, enjoying, until we can start again.
Addictive no?!
Howcome she gets paper towels thrown at her and you get a nice warm washcloth?
I ran out of sand paperAddictive no?!
Howcome she gets paper towels thrown at her and you get a nice warm washcloth?
Fuck man!! Why didn't you just throw a big old handful of sand at her pussy?! Lol I'm sure you didn't mean to sound as insensitive or harsh as it did ...
Um....I did actually, but only because people who know me know I would never do that, and laugh along with me, because fuck that's funny stuff right there!
You are a funny one alright!
I'm not sure if there is a normal 'cutoff' for when a guy's dick stops growing. Personally mine did when I was in my late teens. I also stopped growing height wise in my teens. Maybe there is a correlation and maybe it is similar for all guys, but fuck if I know. I'm not entirely sure if there is a normal 'cutoff' for when a guy's dick stops growing. I'm almost curious enough to do some research on it, but I likely won't since I'm way past that point in my life.
The last part of your question cracked me up! I'm going answer (again) based on personal experience. My balls have never been saggy so to speak. At times my balls can be, but normally are not. As I've grown older I've not noticed a difference in the sagginess (totally made up word there) of my balls. Will that change... definitely could. Will be somewhat interesting to find out now since we are discussing it!
Don't cum to soon. I hope she cums. Will she let me do anal?
Clean up, glass of water, and sometimes a cigarette. Hashtag don't judge me
I say a prayer and thank the stars above.
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SubSoph
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Are cuddles okay? Do you find them to be comforting, or do you not see them as enjoyable whatsoever?
I love to cuddle anytime, and anywhere. If it's just sitting on the couch or whatever. I find them safe, warm and comforting. Nothing beats a nice cuddle.
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UnsaintedCali
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I absolutely love cuddles. Anytime, for any reason or no reason. To hold and be held can be just as intimate and meaningful as anything else. I'm a big ol cuddle monster, but you knew that already.
