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Are cuddles okay? Do you find them to be comforting, or do you not see them as enjoyable whatsoever?

Cuddles are more than okay and absolutely welcomed. I enjoy the feeling of having a woman wrapped in at least one of my arms, looking into her eyes or down her body. Or we could just be laying on the couch/bed watching a movie or TV, close together. Though when I cuddle I have a natural urge to play with her hair...
 
Enjoy it for however long I can....and then clean up....and then cuddle/start over. I don't want it to end, if I can stay in and keep going, I will. If I can't, I'll pull out, and we can clean up, ya know I'll throw some paper towels or something at her, and get myself a nice warm washcloth. Then, I'll lie next to her, holding, touching, enjoying, until we can start again.
LOLOLOL Oooo lol Can see the sweetness in you just pouring out lolol :)
 
Are cuddles okay? Do you find them to be comforting, or do you not see them as enjoyable whatsoever?

Love a good cuddle. Spooning is my favourite as can rub her back and legs. Especially after sex. The feel of both of your heart rates pounding after sex and deep breathing.

I do not have a massive chest so women dont always like to rest their head on my chest. Have had a woman who used to rest her head on my stomach and rub her hands through my chest hair. Makes me purr like a cat haha
 
What turns you on most when you are on fcn?
Nothing really...I've had some good inbox conversations once upon a time, but the pictures and text on here doesn't do anything for me other than provide information on who I want to get to know more through other means.

Does that "turning on" lead you to do something - masturbate online/offline? Express it with your RL significant other? Left to simmer?
It might give me ideas of something to discuss and try if mutually agreed upon. But I'm not one that doesn't communicate or express my desires and wants with my partners.
 
How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being certain a version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?
I'm pretty true to real life on here, I'm just as ridiculous and open here as life. The biggest difference would be I'm there when people need me in real life, can check on them more frequently, and talk to them in a much more interactive fashion. I do use this place to be humorous when I can't in real life, as not everything presents an opportunity to be humorous in RL...nor is there always an audience.

Once upon a time I was someone different online vs in RL, I was a troll, a trouble maker, a pain in the ass (long before I found this place), but, I don't have the time to invest in that world anymore, and it's not entertaining anymore to me. I don't see a point in pretending to be someone I'm not anymore, I like who I am, fuck that, I love who I am.
 
What turns you on most when you are on fcn?

Honestly, not much. It's fun to be around a bunch of rad people who can speak openly without much of a filter and who are comfortable in their own skin. So perhaps if that counts as a turn on? Seeing people's minds and personalities shine through. We have some amazing people here!

Does that "turning on" lead you to do something - masturbate online/offline? Express it with your RL significant other? Left to simmer?

Maybe left to simmer? I liked @Someguy1323 's answer about things to maybe try later with a partner, but in reality communication and spontaneity in the moment is the way to go. So maybe some of the things here just spark little corners of the imagination and give fuel to the fire for later, for me.

How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being a certain version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?

I'm a pretty 'heart on my sleeve' kind of guy; so what you see is what you get haha. That being said, every man or woman is like an ice-berg. So while we may see sides of each other here, without establishing more of a relationship you will only see what's being presented and the depth that's under the surface. I've had some interesting conversations with some people on here and there are some things you just wouldn't know people think, feel, or are into based purely on what they post out here. (This is a bit of a scattered post lol). I do think that we can be more in control of what we let people see here, so perhaps in that sense it is easier to be a certain version of yourself? Fs out lol :)
 
Thanks. I was seeing someone who said after several sex sessions. where they were left more than satisfied, that the only thing they liked about my body were my tits, and wouldn’t be attracted to me if they saw me in the street. I still don’t get it.

Personally I couldn’t do that to someone.
Sounds like a butt head...
 
How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being a certain version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?

The only thing different about me is my name as my ex wife was stalking me on here last year so had to get a new user name. She has since got with a crack head so she has given up making my life hell

Other than that, I am me. Cant flirt. Can be funny sometimes. And shockingly oblivious to when women are hitting on me
 
How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being a certain version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?
Things happen in life in which you find your self, Mentally , way out of whack. That then rolls into every other aspect of your life. Before long you become a shell of your former self. I'm not one to open up to certain things in my life. But I can say one thing. Me in here is the same as me out there. But with one difference. I'm not quite over that Mental hurdle enough to venture too far from home . So thank goodness for FCN :) So yes lol I am the same :) This site is teaching me to be me again :)
 
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