Not at all, I’m about my partner’s pleasure however we get there. I got a bag of tricks that I’ve come up over the years seems to work but everyone is different. Find it much more satisfying experience when she knows her body and is comfortable conveying what she likes.
What are good lubricants to masturbate with??? Baby oil is great but it dries out my skin
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Colinpullin
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Never had one
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Slopps
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Wow... That's an interesting question.
I'd say yes and no. I haven't experienced many women in my life, but there was a clear tendency for them to prefer clitoridal over vaginal orgasms, or not even achieving the latter at all. I would lie if I said I would not prefer being able to achieve a full orgasm through penetration, it does kind checks the box to make one feel "manly" (if that is even thing or worth striving). But if it is a physical impossibility, I still have fingers and a tongue who - as far as I know- can compete pretty well with toys.
Another way to look at it is the quality / path that leads to the orgasm. I can also achieve a quick orgasm of I'm lazy, have some porn and not much time. Is it as rewarding as when it the conclusion of a slowly built up one that I had to fight off a few times because we didn't want it to be over yet? Clearly no (I'd expect the same from a female point of view).
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No not at all a lady once told me that using toys is a complete different kind of cumming than with a partner or this could have been a small lie to make me feel better
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aloe gel ? (like for sun burns....) I actually have no idea...just trying to be helpful
KY gel...
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Thalassa
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Question
Describe the best blowjob you've ever had, in particular what made it that good.
Any specific / new / unusual / surprising technique?
Describe the best blowjob you've ever had, in particular what made it that good.
Any specific / new / unusual / surprising technique?
The best blowjob I had...
Me and my ex-girlfriend at the time were in Uni and I had this massive headache, she had no classes, but I still had to go to a 4 hour lecture. I said fuck it and just headed home with her, she being really caring and stayed with me.
As we got home, there was no one, we cuddled in the living room's sofa and just felt a sleep for a while. I woke up really hard and she noticed from the spooning there was something else in there.
She just said: Let me relieve you with my mouth.
She got on her knees in front of me and first aroused me with her hands, her tits were out and I was fondling them with my hands.
She eventually after some teasing started kissing and licking the length of my shaft.
It felt amazing, it was a hot spring day and her mouth was refreshing. She engulfed my dick with her mouth and went balls deep, no gagging. I squirmed and loved how she did it, fondling my balls in the procces. I pulled her hair here and there making sure she stayed deep and she used her tongue to lick my dick while she was throatfucked. It was amazing. It made me cum so much that she had to let it slip out of her mouth and into her tits.
I must have lasted 6 minutes top, and she just swallowed everything and said: in 30 minutes I want another one like this. And so she did.
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I have found that British accent makes me super horny. Italian accent, Greek one is good too.
I'm sorry Americans, but I don't really enjoy your accents, it's just not my thing. Prove me wrong though!
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Thalassa
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Thanks for your answer.
Quite the feat licking while deepthroating and not gagging. The headache, hot day, caring attitude aside, would you say it was in good part the throatfucking that made it so good?
No worries! Ask anything and I would love to answer!
I enjoyed the throatfucking a lot, well its really a huge turn on for me.
But it was also the dirty talking. How she played the naive papi's girl. Like she really got into that really well. It was a combination of her blowjob skills and that throatfucking for sure.
I really hate how some people think that men shouldn't be emotional. Like how they must be really though and look though. Like I can be tough, but I can also be a cuddle bear and cry in movies, just cry because of a interesting YouTube video. Like some emotions are tied to feminine attitudes, and I hate that! I love to be who I'm and I'm a emotional caring man with 6' and big bones. Let meeee be society
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Thalassa
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Was it the relinquishment of power to you? Feeding the sense of manliness?
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Thalassa
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Question
Those of you who enjoy being deepthroated, what about that turns you on?
Is it more pleasurable than regular / shallow shafting?
Those of you who enjoy being deepthroated, what about that turns you on?
Is it more pleasurable than regular / shallow shafting?
For me dirty talking is really that, just me and my partner having a go with some dirty talking, sometimes is really caring and I can be your lover, sometimes is really slutty, I love both and some more. What I think in that moment was she had a really good sense of what I enjoyed in my sex life and used it to pleasure me, she also enjoyed it of course.
You may argue that I like to Dom, but just because in my sexual experience I have either been with really sub or vanilla women. So there is no experience besides the occasional :" I'm now in charge let me milk your dick ".
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Of course I when I have this kink of ddlg (+18) and they enjoy it its about the power exchange and them being bratty, so you can sort of call it a dominance of the other sex and being a really toxic manly figure sometimes.
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Thalassa
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What do you mean by "toxic"? In what ways? That's quite the negative word. Do you mean sadistic?
Have never been told that before (maybe she is just being polite I suppose?)...but if she does, it is not an issue for me - and I would be more than happy to use the toys together with her for heightened enjoyment.
And also maybe it contributes to me not feeling threatened because I know I am blessed that I can keep it up with my human part continuously for a very extended amount of time without any aids of any form - so that helps.
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Maybe what I truly meant to say was more in the lines of: Some of ddlg kink is really mean and even though there is a good part of it. I think the kink is really became so much worst in porn and the idea of age play. Like I think that is a bit toxic and how it's portrait in porn.
There is nothing spectacularly different or unique with what she does if myself as the recipient were to assess visually - but what she does with her lips and tongue is out of this world - and nobody else comes close to her. What I discover about her trick is that she never applies a strong pressure (be it sucking pressure, or actually physical pressure from the tongue or lips imposed upon my penis) - her stimulation is based on maintaining it light, very wet, and continuous - so this way she builds things up more slowly, and somehow when the journey towards my orgasm develops over a more extended period of time this way (from her relatively lighter pressure), the orgasm tends to be more explosive and more voluminous in terms of the amount of semen ejaculated.
At the same time - only she alone - with only such light stimulation, can still make me cum almost immediately upon her taking me inside her mouth. I just don't understand nor can explain it - she is just amazing.