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European_stormtrooper said:
I really hate how some people think that men shouldn't be emotional. Like how they must be really though and look though. Like I can be tough, but I can also be a cuddle bear and cry in movies, just cry because of a interesting YouTube video. Like some emotions are tied to feminine attitudes, and I hate that! I love to be who I'm and I'm a emotional caring man with 6' and big bones. Let meeee be society
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Great to know my fellow Imperial comrade!
I can even cry watching a good trailer lol - but I am not afraid for people in my real life to know that, because they know the real me - I am blessed to be leading and heading several organisations, and am seen in my professional fraternity as somebody who can be pretty ruthless at taking on higher level and bigger rivals - and also emerging triumphant enough times. And the ladies who have been with me (if they are not lying out of sympathy lol) find that I have a surplus of what they need in bed...so I am thankful I know I'm not weak, and similarly not seen by people in my real world as 'weak' when crying watching chick flicks (and I love chick flicks!) or anything else lol
 
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duncanh1n3z said:
Great to know my fellow Imperial comrade!
I can even cry watching a good trailer lol - but I am not afraid for people in my real life to know that, because they know the real me - I am blessed to be leading and heading several organisations, and am seen in my professional fraternity as somebody who can be pretty ruthless at taking on higher level and bigger rivals - and also emerging triumphant enough times. And the ladies who have been with me (if they are not lying out of sympathy) finds that I have a surplus of what they need in bed...so yeah...I am not ashamed to be crying watching chick flicks (and I love chick flicks!) or anything else lol
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Exactly fellow darksider!
I think that to show emotion is much sexy and much more caring than to not. Also there is no correlation between crying and being a weakling. Everyone endures troubles, sad moments and complications.
 
Thalassa said:
Question

Those of you who enjoy being deepthroated, what about that turns you on?

Is it more pleasurable than regular / shallow shafting?
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As for me, the pleasure is more visual in seeing the lady take it all in - but sensation wise, I don't think it offers significantly more than regular/shallow shafting.

If it was the lady I mentioned earlier, she can just use her lips and tongue 'light pressured' action barely even taking the head in (concentrating at the frenulum)...and I will be struggling to hold back from exploding :)
 
European_stormtrooper said:
Exactly fellow darksider!
I think that to show emotion is much sexy and much more caring than to not. Also there is no correlation between crying and being a weakling. Everyone endures troubles, sad moments and complications.
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Come to think of it...Anakin...Kylo Ren...they are pretty emotional dudes right? The dark side embraces the men who are not ashamed to let their feelings be seen...and cry...before they go and slay and wipe out the whole village lol :):) (sorry...we know this is not a Star Wars thread...but myself and @European_stormtrooper just can't help it when we bump into each other lol)
 
duncanh1n3z said:
Come to think of it...Anakin...Kylo Ren...they are pretty emotional dudes right? The dark side embraces the men who are not ashamed to let their feelings be seen...and cry...before they go and slay and wipe out the whole village lol :):) (sorry...we know this is not a Star Wars thread...but myself and @European_stormtrooper just can't help it when we bump into each other lol)
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Indeed, we are sorry to have stolen the show, but we can't help it.
 
European_stormtrooper said:
Maybe what I truly meant to say was more in the lines of: Some of ddlg kink is really mean and even though there is a good part of it. I think the kink is really became so much worst in porn and the idea of age play. Like I think that is a bit toxic and how it's portrait in porn.
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I get that perspective. Porn has indeed turned ddlg into an incestuous age play, which isn't what it is.
 
Thalassa said:
I get that perspective. Porn has indeed turned ddlg into an incestuous age play, which isn't what it is.
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It's about two lovers, one of them is dominant but respectful. Yes there might be the occasional slap, spit, play around with cum or with some sort of squirting, but the whole incestuous part. No thanks! I'm your daddy because I'm acting like someone who is more experienced and knows stuff while you play the innocent, bratty woman. That's it!
 
Thalassa said:
Men, what expectations did you have of women, or of men (if you lean that way), when you signed up to fcn?

Have your expectations been met or not?
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I didnt have expectations for women or men. I thought this would be a community of ideas and people.
 
Thalassa said:
Do you feel threatened / diminished / less competent if your woman cums easier / more intensely with toys than with you?
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I'm sure it differs for every man and perhaps it is even situational. Personally I don't feel threatened in any way, diminished, or less competence if my partner cums easier or more intensely with toys than with me. Actually find it very hot and pretty damn sexy if she cums harder or easier with toys.

I'm big into pleasing my partner. If using toys on her or her using toys in herself while I watch, touch her, kiss her, or help in any way is how she attains the most pleasure, then sign me up anytime. Sure I would love to for her to orgasm so hard and intense with me inside of her or with something I was doing to her. However, if it is toys which get her off the best, then I'll be more than happy to be any part of that.

Just thinking of her cumming is erotic to me, so in the end whatever works best for her I'm game!
 
LilithX said:
Describe what it is or what it feels like to you to be infatuated with someone…
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The biggest creep of FCN will answer first then..

For me it is having to constant urge of wanting to be with someone.. you become so besotted with another person that it seems like they have some sort of extraordinary charisma and you just don’t want to miss out on being with that person. Very possibly this causes you to feel a little weird in your body and you just can’t help but wanting to find out if that person wants the same things as you do!
 
LilithX said:
Describe what it is or what it feels like to you to be infatuated with someone…
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What it is: To be so strongly drawn to someone that one feels hollow in the absence of their company. Overwhelming desire to be near them or interact with them somehow. The anticipation and eagerness that follows before each encounter. Willingness to forgo activities that do not involve them, and actively making time and making up excuses to prolong the time spent. Coupled with a powerful sense of curiosity and playfulness.

P.S. Unless it is a stalker like obsession, I think people in general tend to regard the above mentioned feelings as "creepy" due to their own dissociation in the case it's not mutual. Yet, that is life. Not everything comes in pairs of twos. As long as it's not harmful, the world would be a better place if such expression was encouraged.
 
LilithX said:
Describe what it is or what it feels like to you to be infatuated with someone…
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I think infatuation takes various forms for different people. For me, once my thinking goes from how past experiences with them made me feel, to me thinking about how we can ride the wave of those feelings with new experiences together. That's when I know it's getting deeper for me.

It isn't even about constant thought either, although that can be part of it. It's about going through my day and seeing something that reminds me of them. The same car they drive. Hearing a song we both love. Seeing a sign that reminds me to tell them something I saw earlier that day. It's that feeling in my chest of a full breathe and exhale, because her voice soothes my heart.
 
UnsaintedCali said:
I think infatuation takes various forms for different people. For me, once my thinking goes from how past experiences with them made me feel, to me thinking about how we can ride the wave of those feelings with new experiences together. That's when I know it's getting deeper for me.

It isn't even about constant thought either, although that can be part of it. It's about going through my day and seeing something that reminds me of them. The same car they drive. Hearing a song we both love. Seeing a sign that reminds me to tell them something I saw earlier that day. It's that feeling in my chest of a full breathe and exhale, because her voice soothes my heart.
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What a sweet way of describing it :)
 
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