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LillyK
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Guys,
What is the best thing about being single?
What is the best thing about being single?
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Steve1972
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Best thing running to my own timetable
Worst thing is solitude
Worst thing is solitude
Best thing would be freedom. You are free to do as you wish (within legal/moral bounds). Can come and go as you please. Pretty much can live what how you want. No sharing. Able to date who you want when you want.
On the flip side, the "freedom" which comes with being single means missing out on having found your soul mate.
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LillyK
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I feel like I already found my soul mate. Although tbf he changed and was no longer viable lol
I've loved hard. No regrets!
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Thalassa
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What do you define as a soul mate?
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LillyK
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Ooooooooh good question... even the thought of if someone believes in souls mates or the idea that we only have one. I don't believe that.
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Thalassa
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I thought about how to phrase it and those two would've been leading questions lol.
I don't believe either.
My definition would be the one who you were meant to be with. However, it doesn't mean you are or will ever be with them.
Besides the hunt for the mythical tight vagina, can 40 and 50 something men who habitually pursue 20 somethings explain the fascination? Is it a chasing your thing?
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Steve1972
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Honestly I often wonder the same thing.
Age doesn't attract me personally I look for someone with a personality someone who I can talk to about absolutely anything and someone who can hold an engaging conversation.
I would much rather be with a lady who is older and possesses these qualities than a lady who fits into the atypical picture of beauty and young.
So sorry I can't answer the question maybe it's because there are so many wannabes and pretenders on sites like this
Age doesn't attract me personally I look for someone with a personality someone who I can talk to about absolutely anything and someone who can hold an engaging conversation.
I would much rather be with a lady who is older and possesses these qualities than a lady who fits into the atypical picture of beauty and young.
So sorry I can't answer the question maybe it's because there are so many wannabes and pretenders on sites like this
All you lovely gents on here lol
Generalisation or you specifically
Why is virginity so valued? I mean why the oh I get to pop her cherry thing? I have never understood it and would love to get a guys opinion
Generalisation or you specifically
Why is virginity so valued? I mean why the oh I get to pop her cherry thing? I have never understood it and would love to get a guys opinion
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Steve1972
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Virginity is not something that I've ever sought out tbh I have been someones first.
And as I said in an earlier response physical attraction is not number 1 on my priorities if I was looking for a partner so I'm really not inclined to ask anyone as to the status of their hymen.
Surely to be with someone who you can tell absolutely anything to is more important than virginity .
I'm sure that there are many wannabes that have the taking of virginity on there list of conquests to achieve but not I
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Thalassa
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What is it with straight men and their fascination / kink for girl-on-girl action?
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Slopps
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First of all, if gay men had that fascination / link, wouldn't it be even more weird?
Now I obviously can't speak for all men, but at some point in your life you get confronted to porn and you see threesomes where guys get with 2 girls where each of them is already an illusion... The lesbian porn as it's shown is in the same line, the actresses not nearly closely looking or acting like the several real life lesbian women I know. Also that kind of lorn is "promising" a form of promiscuity from lesbians.... And/or on top of that you have the supposedly "achievement" of being such an incredible stud that even lesbian women would drop her panties for you...
I've long past that kink/desire/need personally, somewhere 20 years ago at least, but I understand it's appealing for many.
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toohkrny
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Lol i guess since i came in her and gave her head till she came again
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PraesulChris
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There's an intense satisfaction of having the freedom to do what I wish without having to worry about how it would affect a relationship. I can place almost all of my focus on work, or preparing for upcoming events, or even spending large chunks of time indulging myself in random skills/interests that help push me to become a more well-rounded, multi-layered individual.
However it's important to note that while I do enjoy this freedom, there's always a small voice in the back of my mind telling me that while being well-rounded is good, finding someone that I can share all of my layers with will truly make me happy.
Hey Lisa - I imagine porn has probably fixed an idea in guy's heads that bigger is probably better. I'm average size (6 ins) and I guess guys with this size (or smaller) probably wouldn't say no to an extra inch or 2, whereas guys with 8 ins or above are probably less bothered
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PraesulChris
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Bruh, if 6 inches is average, then I am sorely lacking in that department..
I was insecure for years. Turns out it’s fine and I’m quite happy now x