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For men in relationships - what extent of friendliness with the sex you are attracted to, would you consider acceptable?

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Friendliness in many ways e.g. breadth and depth of how much you sharing, at what frequency, topics discussed, level of attraction that adds to the friendliness, etc.
 
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Slopps said:
I don't see how that would be an issue. It is the same as kissing after giving her oral.
If she lets me cum in her mouth, I do not expect her by any means to brush her teeth, but I'd ask her either to spit or swallow before.
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So no snowballing? :P jk. I assumed most would answer this way. Years ago, a guy I was dating handed me my beer and said “want a drink first?” afterwards as I moved in to kiss him! Lol....needless to say that was the last he got from me lol.
 
Kbunny said:
Have you tasted your own cum? Why and what did you think? I think it's more common for a female to do, although I really only do it as a turn on for someone else. A couple of my male friends said they did it purely out of curiosity.
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Theres two types of guys. Those who have tried it. And those who lie about it. Not something I ever need to do again though. Lolol.
 
Thalassa said:
Men, what expectations did you have of women, or of men (if you lean that way), when you signed up to fcn?

Have your expectations been met or not?
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My expectation (first in chat) was that aside from men pretending to be women (or more likely pretending to be girls), and women here to make a buck off a cam show, there might be very few genuine women around.

Once starting in forums this couldnt be further from the truth.

As far as expectations of them... I really had none. I wanted them to be friendly, cute, amorous, and able to carry a chat beyond impersonal sexual dialogue. This was met and exceeded. @Kbunny

Theres also fistfulls of witty, sexy, intelligent women here who I am happy to be even slight acquaintances with. The forum in general (even though I'm not super active) has become a place where I go to spend time and be silly with good people.

In general theres a casual friendly vibe that I totally dig. And it helps that nakedness occurs with it as well. :p
 
Kbunny said:
Have you tasted your own cum? Why and what did you think? I think it's more common for a female to do, although I really only do it as a turn on for someone else. A couple of my male friends said they did it purely out of curiosity.
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Of course I tried. Just as @Flirtinghubby said, I do not believe any man never tried. And most likely most of us were at least a bit grossed out too. Let's face it: it is only in porn that woman love cum and just need more and more of it.
 
Thalassa said:
Men, what expectations did you have of women, or of men (if you lean that way), when you signed up to fcn?

Have your expectations been met or not?
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My expectations were to just find new women to talk to and be friends with. More if the conversation genuinely took it that way. I did just sign up a few days ago but they have not been met yet. I haven't really talked to many people on here at all but I would love to
 
LilithX said:
This statement is false.
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Very false. I know way more women that are into cum than I know women grossed out by it. Literally the ratio of the women that I know that info of is maybe 50/2. To answer your question though, I've never tried it. Never have been curious about it either. I do enjoy when a woman does it, but it's only if they want to.
 
Kbunny said:
Have you tasted your own cum? Why and what did you think? I think it's more common for a female to do, although I really only do it as a turn on for someone else. A couple of my male friends said they did it purely out of curiosity.
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Caught in the moment and no tissue ;) lol
 
What are your thoughts on ASMR/Audio porn ?
It is enough to turn you on ? Or do you need something more visual ?
 
DarlaRose said:
If you were flexible enough to suck your own dick.. Would you?
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It takes more than flexibility, you also have to be well endowed...that being said. I would if I didn't have to continually stretch to become more flexible. At one point I could lick myself, however I gave up stretching/increasing my flexibility after that, it was too much work.
 
LilithX said:
This statement is false.
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I agree. My ex wife didnt like it, but still gave me BJ's often. Just let me finish somewhere else (boobs, stomach etc). I had no problem with that as she had amazing technique.

I had someone last year who insisted that i finished in her mouth. She said she loved being in control when a partner reaches climax and it turned her on. Depends on the woman i guess
 
Sarah_100 said:
What are your thoughts on ASMR/Audio porn ?
It is enough to turn you on ? Or do you need something more visual ?
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I don’t care for ASMR but I’ve never watched ASMR porn. I think it would still turn me on a lot because I’m more into a loud woman. The visual does help a lot though
 
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