How quickly do you assess whether a person is the compatibility level you seek, and to be pursued for a romantic relationship?
And what attributes / actions make that clear to you?
That depends on how well the talking stage goes. If we make it clear to each other that we're feeling one or another and I know for a fact that she's gonna be the one for me, I'll make it crystal clear that I want her. If she's talking to other men whilst I try bagging her then I probably wouldn't go near a girl like that again. She's got to just want me!!!! Imagine she says goodnight to you and starts messaging another guy 10 mins later. Huge turn off!!!! So I wouldn't want her talking to another man even during the talking stage is what I'm trying to say.
I've mentioned it before but the more clingy she is the more I'm gonna fall for her and take her seriously. That's the biggest one!! I like it when a woman is open with me too. I don't want to be speaking to a girl who hides shit from me constantly. If she ticks those two boxes it's more likely I'd try pursue a relationship with her. I've got to be attracted to that girl before anything tho lol
I'm fucking shit at assessing though haha. Every relationship I've been in has flopped. So maybe I'm doing something wrong. Those are the attributes I look at for however, when I am trying to pursue a relationship with a girl I'm feeling
How quickly do you assess whether a person is the compatibility level you seek, and to be pursued for a romantic relationship?
And what attributes / actions make that clear to you?
Great question!
For me it's someone intelligent,finds me humorous, and finds me sexually desirable. If they can't laugh at some of my constant stupid jokes, not all of which are funny, that's a big one for me. Second on the list is being smart, and caring. I'm a big fan of people who care about other people/animals, if they ignore those in need, have no compassion or empathy, I know it won't work. And of course they have to want my naked furry body on them/under them.
As far as how long before I know I'd want a relationship with them....I think it depends, it could be 20 mins, it could be a month or more. People aren't always genuine when they first.present themselves, really knowing who they are and what they are like sometimes takes time.
In the end it isn't about the body. So any of them is good. All women can be beautiful, I'm attracted to people attracted to me mostly, no matter the body type
In the end it isn't about the body. So any of them is good. All women can be beautiful, I'm attracted to people attracted to me mostly, no matter the body type
I'm ok with your thoughts on it. You know nothing about me. Initial attraction is one thing...but preference on one type or another I don't have. And when/if my nose grows like that....it could be useful.
How quickly do you assess whether a person is the compatibility level you seek, and to be pursued for a romantic relationship?
And what attributes / actions make that clear to you?
How quickly? Usually it takes me months... If not years. I am absolutely unable to flirt, any girl that I would have seeked to have a romantic relationship with would have to be at least an acquintance that raised my interest above the usual level.
What makes/made me change my opinion on her (from acquitance to potential relationship) isn't "a thing" or "an attribute". It is the sum.of things and experiences... At stolen smile at the right moment can be the decisive little thing that missed so far...
