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JudithJ1337 said:
About 8 years now. We met in high school. We became good friends, then he graduated and I barely spoke with him after that. After I graduated, we started talking again, as he was dealing with some pretty rough shit. After we started talking again, we became very close friends, then we kinda just accepted that we were meant to be with each other.
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What is it about him that excites/arouses you the most? And where would you want to get married in your dream wedding?
 
Nudist_22 said:
What is it about him that excites/arouses you the most? And where would you want to get married in your dream wedding?
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Well, if I'm only considering the things about him that arouse me the most, I love his initiative and just the way he listens to me and goes above and beyond in terms of just sexy time. I also just love the way he holds me, in and out of sex.

But there are so many ways my man excites me, and I wish there were more ways for me to show him how much I appreciate this love (and lust) for me, but he sticks by my side, and I stick by his. We support each other in so many different ways, and our future excites me a lot too.

As for dream wedding... I don't even know anymore. I want something small. In the woods and away from the public. I don't want to spend a shit ton of money on it and I want the most important people in our lives to be there. That's what I want.
 
JudithJ1337 said:
Well, if I'm only considering the things about him that arouse me the most, I love his initiative and just the way he listens to me and goes above and beyond in terms of just sexy time. I also just love the way he holds me, in and out of sex.

But there are so many ways my man excites me, and I wish there were more ways for me to show him how much I appreciate this love (and lust) for me, but he sticks by my side, and I stick by his. We support each other in so many different ways, and our future excites me a lot too.

As for dream wedding... I don't even know anymore. I want something small. In the woods and away from the public. I don't want to spend a shit ton of money on it and I want the most important people in our lives to be there. That's what I want.
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Well it sounds like you two have something beautiful! You two are so lucky to have each other, and I'm so happy for you! I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you to have that beautiful wedding! I also was looking at your profile and love how open you are about sex! I love being open about it too, what do you enjoy most about your daily masturbation?
 
Nudist_22 said:
Well it sounds like you two have something beautiful! You two are so lucky to have each other, and I'm so happy for you! I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you to have that beautiful wedding! I also was looking at your profile and love how open you are about sex! I love being open about it too, what do you enjoy most about your daily masturbation?
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The journey it takes me on. Does it get old? Sometimes. Does it feel like a problem sometimes? Not really, I'm home a lot and I've never really had my desire to pleasure myself get in the way of my life.

I love making myself feel good. Maybe it's because I'm still feel so young and I have the energy to do it so often. Or maybe it's me reveling in post-sex pleasure or pre-sex anticipation. I just have a lot of time and energy to focus on my body, and that's kinda just how I choose to spend it.
 
JudithJ1337 said:
The journey it takes me on. Does it get old? Sometimes. Does it feel like a problem sometimes? Not really, I'm home a lot and I've never really had my desire to pleasure myself get in the way of my life.

I love making myself feel good. Maybe it's because I'm still feel so young and I have the energy to do it so often. Or maybe it's me reveling in post-sex pleasure or pre-sex anticipation. I just have a lot of time and energy to focus on my body, and that's kinda just how I choose to spend it.
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Well that is beautiful to hear! I've always felt that masturbation is a healthy act of self love, and it's wonderful to hear that you give yourself the time and focus to your body like that!
 
My wife is even more multiorgasmic than you are - I can easily get 100 out of her in a couple of hours. But when I met her 13 years ago, she definitely wasn't - I've had to just push her to have one or two more than she thought she could take, and over time, she's adapted and can now keep going until she passes out. Is that something you'd be interested in doing? Would you worry that if you could do that, you wouldn't be able to stop?

I also keep her naked at home when the kids are at school/work. I work from home, so I get to spend all day staring at her. It's wonderful for both of us. Even if she's home alone, she's naked, and I get to think about it until I get back. Is that something you'd like your man to do to you?

We're also going to renew our wedding vows, as things happened at our wedding 10 years ago that she didn't like. We're planning to do the ceremony in the woods, with me in a suit and her completely naked except for her shoes. She'll go there in her original wedding dress and have some photos with it on and with it off. Then, we'll sneak off into the woods. Would you like to be naked when you finally get married to your man?
 
JudithJ1337 said:
The journey it takes me on. Does it get old? Sometimes. Does it feel like a problem sometimes? Not really, I'm home a lot and I've never really had my desire to pleasure myself get in the way of my life.

I love making myself feel good. Maybe it's because I'm still feel so young and I have the energy to do it so often. Or maybe it's me reveling in post-sex pleasure or pre-sex anticipation. I just have a lot of time and energy to focus on my body, and that's kinda just how I choose to spend it.
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Hello Judy I am newer here I would like to ask a question and get your input. I am 64 female divorced for 3 years the Pandemic did us in it was the breaking point of the marriage. I am on the old fashioned side I suppose. I have not been with since my ex husband until last evening. I met a younger man hes 54 exactly 10 years apart. He is single never married but very caring and nice. We have dated a few times and last night it became intimate. We did not have sex but we kissed passionately and touched underneath out clothes. I stopped it there I do not want to rush things and last night I was not ready for intercourse. He is fine with it and understands. My question Judy when I felt his private area I felt that he is shaved except for a very small amount of hair that he keeps just above there. Is this a sign of promiscuous behavior or just his personal preference? I keep hair there trimmed short but I do have hair and he felt that as well. Would he have an issue or be turned off by that? I want us to be right for each other but I am new to all this. Advice? SD
 
RobM83 said:
My wife is even more multiorgasmic than you are - I can easily get 100 out of her in a couple of hours. But when I met her 13 years ago, she definitely wasn't - I've had to just push her to have one or two more than she thought she could take, and over time, she's adapted and can now keep going until she passes out. Is that something you'd be interested in doing? Would you worry that if you could do that, you wouldn't be able to stop?

I also keep her naked at home when the kids are at school/work. I work from home, so I get to spend all day staring at her. It's wonderful for both of us. Even if she's home alone, she's naked, and I get to think about it until I get back. Is that something you'd like your man to do to you?

We're also going to renew our wedding vows, as things happened at our wedding 10 years ago that she didn't like. We're planning to do the ceremony in the woods, with me in a suit and her completely naked except for her shoes. She'll go there in her original wedding dress and have some photos with it on and with it off. Then, we'll sneak off into the woods. Would you like to be naked when you finally get married to your man?
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1. My fiance and I sometimes go until we pass out. That's something that I enjoy. No, that's not something I worry about.

2. I mean, I am usually naked when I'm at home anyway, and I'm basically home all day anyway, so already something I do.

3. No. I'm not an exhibitionist. I am comfortable being naked in my home, and where I know I won't be bothered and that's it.
 
SpringDayz said:
Hello Judy I am newer here I would like to ask a question and get your input. I am 64 female divorced for 3 years the Pandemic did us in it was the breaking point of the marriage. I am on the old fashioned side I suppose. I have not been with since my ex husband until last evening. I met a younger man hes 54 exactly 10 years apart. He is single never married but very caring and nice. We have dated a few times and last night it became intimate. We did not have sex but we kissed passionately and touched underneath out clothes. I stopped it there I do not want to rush things and last night I was not ready for intercourse. He is fine with it and understands. My question Judy when I felt his private area I felt that he is shaved except for a very small amount of hair that he keeps just above there. Is this a sign of promiscuous behavior or just his personal preference? I keep hair there trimmed short but I do have hair and he felt that as well. Would he have an issue or be turned off by that? I want us to be right for each other but I am new to all this. Advice? SD
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I don't know how to answer your questions. I am not a dating expert. I wouldn't call myself promiscuous. I don't sleep around. I am no means a professional. Sorry.
 
JudithJ1337 said:
Breakfast... over easy...

Fertilized... I'll have to think on...
Yes, but can't afford the consequences just yet. Lol... Hopefully in a year or two my fiance and I can afford kids.
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Actually, I really don't care how my eggs are cooked as long as they're fried in bacon fat.
 
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