hm. I have a very hard time giving up control over even relatively unimportant things if I feel that I can't trust the other person/people to handle things
I don't really have favorites. I thought I did in the past. Opeth, Children of Bodem, Pantera, Metallica, Alice in Chains, BLS, Led Zeppelin, STP, Iced Earth, King Crimson, Lamb of God, Megadeth, Queen, White Zombie, Vitalims, Divinex, Falconer, Exmortus, Jinjer, Andromida, Caravan Palace, In Flames, Mystic Prophecy, Nightmare, Tool, are some at the top of my head, many more I can't remember....
Walking with my best friend in the sunshine or basically anywhere, taking the dogs to a park. Romantic dinner by the fire and sex throughout the night so we have to sleep in to get enough rest.