I think both being quick and slow have their times and places. It's all about perspective. If there is a fire or I'm running a race, or I have an important job to do and not a lot of time...then I need to be quick. Making love, massages, eating, walking on the beach, watching the stars. I prefer to take my time with those and enjoy them
Why can't we all just get along with one another and enjoy the simple pleasures of life?