confession: i want to cheat on my bf

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he just doesn’t give me what i need. i am always so horny and he’s always tired with work, it’s getting really annoying. i have been going on to websites to look for what i am looking for, i am just too scared to go through with it fully!
 
Sex in a relationship is all about the other person. And if you both see it that way it leads to great sex. But sometimes I want to make it about me. Be selfish. Take someone the way I want to take them and not have to worry about what they thought of the experience. That's why one night stands and hookups can be so much fun. Also the risk of cheating is a turn on.
 
he just doesn’t give me what i need. i am always so horny and he’s always tired with work, it’s getting really annoying. i have been going on to websites to look for what i am looking for, i am just too scared to go through with it fully!
LMAO you're are the reason why the "Red Pill" movement exists. "Stupid boyfriend and his responsible adult commitments." You are a living Red Pill meme. Perfect illustration of reality.

Tell us more.
 
LMAO you're are the reason why the "Red Pill" movement exists. "Stupid boyfriend and his responsible adult commitments." You are a living Red Pill meme. Perfect illustration of reality.

Tell us more.
oh no, it’s not about his work, i have always known him to be a really hard worker and always do OT when he gets the chance. it’s just that he expects me to fulfill his needs after i work my full shifts, but he can’t do the same. he also constantly tells me that nothing happens at work and that he literally sits for more than half of his shift. this isn’t one of those “oh my bf is being an adult and i’m upset” moments. i just want things to be fair.
 
oh no, it’s not about his work, i have always known him to be a really hard worker and always do OT when he gets the chance. it’s just that he expects me to fulfill his needs after i work my full shifts, but he can’t do the same. he also constantly tells me that nothing happens at work and that he literally sits for more than half of his shift. this isn’t one of those “oh my bf is being an adult and i’m upset” moments. i just want things to be fair.
So leave him if what you're claiming is fact, without you not telling us something that's part of the equation.
 
LMAO you're are the reason why the "Red Pill" movement exists. "Stupid boyfriend and his responsible adult commitments." You are a living Red Pill meme. Perfect illustration of reality.

Tell us more.
To be fair to her she is expressing a feeling and/or desire in a place that should be accepting of that. I for instance talk about my desire to cheat. That I guess come from being a certain age and crave something new and exciting. Call it a midlife crisis maybe. Doesn't mean I'm going to actually do it. But we are in a safe space here where we can let our Fantacys and kinks out. So if she what's to talk about cheating I'll be the one to fantasize about cheating with her and all our hypothetical hotel hookups.
 
To be fair to her she is expressing a feeling and/or desire in a place that should be accepting of that. I for instance talk about my desire to cheat. That I guess come from being a certain age and crave something new and exciting. Call it a midlife crisis maybe. Doesn't mean I'm going to actually do it. But we are in a safe space here where we can let our Fantacys and kinks out. So if she what's to talk about cheating I'll be the one to fantasize about cheating with her and all our hypothetical hotel hookups.
And I'm expressing my feelings surrounding toxic shit in the society today, as well as pointing out factual issues. NOWHERE should be accepting toxification of social fabric. It's shit. Hypothetical peddling of such crap is also shit. Those are my feelings which I'm expressing in a place that should be accepting of that, especially because it's rooted in the idea of respect for a partnership, and most importantly, the other person in the relationship.
 
I don't want to start an argument and I'm sorry if I offended you. On my part I just felt that she is a new member making her first post. your feeling on the subject are valid, I dont share them personally. I feel sex should be fluid and can exist without relationships and commitment. and also that talking about it rather than bottling up your desires can help stay faithfully when you may otherwise stray.
 
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