Love this. I can say one thing. A “man” penetrates deeper and rougher. They always take my breath and I find breathing is hard especially an athletic one that goes fast and hard..
On the other hand, a girl is smoother and especially one that grinds or scissors, it’s almost torture. It feels so good but it doesn’t completely satisfy so it drives me absolute nuts. Most girls are more dominant kissers too when they are that type.
I think girls make me lose control sexually more.