Curious poll maybe

Who do you think is more afraid of an face to face meet up ?

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Shy_girl74

Shy_girl74

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I’m curious . Want hear from the Dudes and Dudettes .

If you had the opportunity to meet in person with someone you been chatting with . Who do you think is more scared to actually to meet up and change their mind ? The woman ? Or the guy??

Just a random thought I have had . Probably overload from my stats class lol
 
Good question...going to have to think on that one...

I would suppose it would depend :
The nature of meet up...is it just a meet up ...? or a meet up with the promise of something further...?
On just how honest you have been when , chatting or corresponding with that other someone...:eek::D
Or how willing you are follow through with anything that might have been discussed...

That said ...if I made a connection with someone here ...it would be fun to meet up....
 
Shy_girl74 said:
I’m curious . Want hear from the Dudes and Dudettes .

If you had the opportunity to meet in person with someone you been chatting with . Who do you think is more scared to actually to meet up and change their mind ? The woman ?
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I know from first-hand experience.It's women. The ones who are brave enough to meet up have all been worth my time,though.
 
Well, women by nature are apprehensive for a bazillion reasons...goes back to the thread "who is more complicated, men or women?"

That said, I'm not a child. I want what I want and I will do what I do. I speak truths and follow through (honor, courage, and commitment in me), but I'm all in When the time is right!
 
I can't see any reason anyone would be nervous except if you approached the meet with expectations. That would cause apprehensions most definitely. That puts the face to face into the case of the individuals involved and a 'generic' answer wouldn't apply.
Just follow common sense, meet in public, take a few photos of the person, send to a friend and tell them you did and after that, it's no different to meeting anyone new.

Ls x
 
Heidiwil said:
Man whore, Big Daddy hahaha
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Well,I'm not exactly a Puritan. You got me there. It's not like a sleazy thing,though. I really do enjoy hanging out with women,getting to know new people, and yeah, I get a kick out of wowing a woman in bed and making her feel beautiful and special.

I like to think that it all balances out towards the good. Probably good for a woman's psychological well-being to be lovingly eaten out until she's dying for cock inside her and then fucked bowlegged by a handsome and talented man every once in a while.
 
Sometimes you just need 1 minute of insane courage. I don't think it's a matter of genders here, it's more complicated than that. Anytime we take a step into the unknown we are taking a risk. That’s why it’s called the unknown. And no, Anthropophobia is not a problem for me.
 
I'm usually more nervous meeting up with a girl, even without sex in the picture. I'm not a very confident man when it comes to women, at least online. I'm working on that, but it sure is not going well
 
Suburbancommando said:
I'm usually more nervous meeting up with a girl, even without sex in the picture. I'm not a very confident man when it comes to women, at least online. I'm working on that, but it sure is not going well
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How can you be sure you're more nervous than her ? Is it in her eyes ? Just curious.
 
I think as far as being willing to commit to meet, women are more aprehapprehe. Once the decision is made I think both men and women are on the same plane.
 
Ghotitk421 said:
I think as far as being willing to commit to meet, women are more aprehapprehe. Once the decision is made I think both men and women are on the same plane.
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That is if two agree. Almost a year ago I agreed to meet up with someone. He quickly backed out .
 
Ghotitk421 said:
True, if one or both don't decide this is happening the one who has not made up there mind is going to be more than nervous.
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Out of honesty don’t make other person think that you want to when in fact you don’t . If you are unsure state that but don’t say I want to meetup then when other person agrees to just back out .
 
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