Deal Breakers

A woman who’s house is a mess. I don’t expect spotless but no dirty clothes/dishes lying about

Someone who doesn’t look after their kids

Someone who doesn’t make at least some effort

Woman who is so feminist she doesn’t like me doing small things like opening doors etc
 
MannyMan said:
;) Gotcha! just making sure! 2% right here!

Deal breaker would be if she is constantly putting on make-up , looking so good in fact I can't touch her... I'm only allowed to look. Especially on a first date.
Click to expand...
Im so glad you think that. I rarely wear make up or bras for that matter.. I love just being me. Girls who go over the top to just go to the supermarket do my head in.
 
Don’t be wishy-washy on decisions. This drives me insane! I need people with a game plan. Don’t be shy with your opinions, wants and needs. I much prefer decisive people who aren’t afraid to ask or tell what they want. Even in the case of “I don’t know.” Then at least if you’re dealing with someone who shoots straight you know they don’t know; and aren’t being invited to a fishing expedition to find out.
 
Misha000 said:
Im so glad you think that. I rarely wear make up or bras for that matter.. I love just being me. Girls who go over the top to just go to the supermarket do my head in.
Click to expand...

I've literally never worn make up apart from trying out a bit of mascara and lip stick as a teen.
 
The thread has already mentioned all of mine.
Lies
Manners (lack thereof)
Respect for who I am (Lack thereof)
Grooming (Lack thereof)
People who want to change me to fit their 'ideal'
Smokers
Drinkers (social drinkers are fine, daily drinkers, I'll pass)
Pressure for sex. (If it is going to happen, it'll happen when I'm ready and not before)
Arrogance and braggarts.
Comparisons (Or even constant mentions) with/of previous partners.

Ls x
 
Chubbychappie said:
Woman who is so feminist she doesn’t like me doing small things like opening doors etc
Click to expand...
This comment was made years ago and this thread is dead, lol. But my deal-breaker is people who don't know the difference between Misandrists and Feminists. ;0

... Also both people who are arrogant or too easily persuaded. One is a sign of ignorance the other is a sign of naivety.
 
Princxss0805 said:
This comment was made years ago and this thread is dead, lol. But my deal-breaker is people who don't know the difference between Misandrists and Feminists. ;0

... Also both people who are arrogant or too easily persuaded. One is a sign of ignorance the other is a sign of naivety.
Click to expand...
I used to be like that admittedly, which leads into my deal-breaker... dishonesty, betrayal, and cruelty. I'm no longer any of the above because of having endured those 3 in result of it... but I will never tolerate them in others.
 
SexyAsianBitch said:
are there any deal breakers or flags that would make you leave someone you are currently seeing? For me the biggest would be lack of chemistry and communication. I understand chemistry might be vague, but if you do not feel something for someone, or you feel less then they feel it is not right to lead them on
Click to expand...

Prior to dating it would be smoking. A new behaviour with someone I'm already dating? it would be a lack of confidence in themselves. If a woman is worried that I'm going to cheat or that she isn't in my league, its a huge turnoff.

Idk.. I just like strong confident women. If they get too into me or they aren't focusing on themselves and confident in themselves, my interest disappears.
 
Princxss0805 said:
This comment was made years ago and this thread is dead, lol. But my deal-breaker is people who don't know the difference between Misandrists and Feminists. ;0

... Also both people who are arrogant or too easily persuaded. One is a sign of ignorance the other is a sign of naivety.
Click to expand...

This one is really a dealbreaker for me too because you're just confusing women hating men for feminism and I hate that's what this has become. No, pretty sure feminism is about equal rights for all women and not hating men lol.

Here are some of mine:
- Lack of confidence (it's okay to be insecure sometimes but I don't want to be that person who constantly has to tell you that you matter and you look nice and I don't need to compare you to someone else)
- Lack of motivation - I need my partners to be motivated and want the best for themselves. Can understand things like mental health and different situational things that would make getting to your goals harder but I don't want you to settle if you hate your job and are miserable.
- People who refuse to get help for issues they have (mental / physical)
- People who aren't interested in my hobbies, but expect me to do your hobbies because you value your time over mine
- Obvious stuff like grooming, cleaning, looking nice
- People are not in the same politics as me
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Trending content

Back
Top